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Erica Scott

Spank Place — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 00:34:16 +0000

Sometimes when I’m thinking up some questions to ask for this website I don’t know much about them other than having seen them in their spanking scenes on the internet. From reading Erica Scott’s blog I feel like I almost know her already and I think she may be the only person I’ve interviewed so far with an autobiography “Late Bloomer.” As the title suggests, Erica came to spanking later in life but seems to have taken to it like a duck to water. Erica is a lovely tall, slim brunette whom you may have seen on websites such as Shadow Lane, Northern Spanking and Sarah Gregory Spanking where she plays on camera, and she also plays recreationally. I’m sure everything I have to ask will either be covered either on the blog or autobiography but hopefully it’ll be a starter pack for people who don’t know Erica Scott yet.

We were lucky enough to ask Erica some questions in November 2011..

The blurb to your book mentions the troubles you had to overcome before you got into spanking. Are you better now?

I am much better, thank you. The eating disorders have been well under control for several years now. As for depression, that will always be with me to some degree, but as I said in my book, my worst days now are still better than my best days back then. Fully accepting my kink and immersing myself in the spanking scene worked wonders for my self-confidence and esteem.

Did you always fantasize about spanking, or what was the spark that put it into your mind?

No spark that I can recall; it’s always been with me, even when I was a small child and had no idea what I was feeling. You can add me to the endless list of people who, as children, looked up “spank” and all its synonyms in the dictionary, felt belly-flops when they saw a spanking scene on TV or in a movie, etc. I was kind of a strange child to begin with, so I thought this was just more of my weirdness.

I’ve just been reading some of your blog, you talk a lot about John and ST. Who are they please?

John is my boyfriend; we have been a couple since 1996, but we don’t live together. I met him when I placed a spanking personal ad in a local free paper (this was before I got on the Internet). This was shortly after I first “came out” as a spanko, so my relationship with him grew alongside my growth in the scene.

ST is my friend and play partner. He goes by the name “SpankoTango” on FetLife, which explains the initials. For a long time, I called him “New Guy,” but after a year, that seemed a little ridiculous. He comes over to my place every Monday and we have a spanking session, which I then blog about. Readers have come to enjoy that regular feature and I enjoy writing about our adventures.

In a recent post you were talking about getting spanked by ST and you were saying how you were trying to be quiet because you have a new neighbour. How loud are you normally during a spanking? Does muffling your cries change the experience of a spanking?

I am normally quite loud, as my fellow party-goers will attest to! When being spanked at a party or a shoot, I will holler, sass, swear, make a lot of noise before I settle into the scene and quiet down a little. But in my apartment, I have to be careful. I figure my neighbors can hear the smacking sounds, but if they don’t hear any accompanying screams or protests, they can’t quite determine what’s going on. I must be doing something right, because I’ve been playing in this apartment for over 15 years and have never had a complaint.

Muffling my cries has a bit of an effect on the experience, because part of my mind always has to be aware of my sounds and reactions and I can’t fully lose myself in the scene. But I’ve been doing it for so long, it’s fairly automatic. That said, it’s really a treat when I get a chance to let go and be noisy!

Do you find that being spanked helps you deal with ordinary life better? If you go without being spanked for a period of time what happens?

It isn’t pretty, let me tell you. I am a very moody and mercurial person, and regular spanking helps me release stress and manage my wayward emotions. If I go without spanking for a while, not only do I miss the sensation, the special attention, etc., but I can feel angry, weepy, restless, depressed, prickly… sometimes all of those. Like I said, it isn’t pretty. That’s when my blog gets particularly snarky.

For me, spanking has the same effect as vigorous exercise; it releases endorphins along with the stress, and I feel much calmer and happier afterward. Unfortunately, the effects are short-lived and I always need more!

What is the “Spanking Court”?

Spanking Court is the brainchild of Alpine Sierra Studios, run by Cali and Heinz. They’ve been shooting for over a year and their premise is simple: People with a dispute, a claim, an issue that needs resolving, come to the Court and present their case to the judge. Topics addressed have included speeders, rude neighbors, perpetrators of malicious pranks, exam cheaters, and errant wives. The judge passes sentence (a number of strokes from 100-300 with the implement of his choosing), and the defendant is remanded to the bailiff (Dana Kane) and the court disciplinarian (The Villain) for the punishment. The sentencing room is formidable, with spanking benches and two walls filled with implements. The spankee has to count the strokes out loud.

I was lucky enough to shoot with them this year, a story arc with six scenes. My last scene was shot on November 5. Spanking Court has been headquartered in Hollywood, CA, but they will be relocating. I will miss them, but hope to be flown to their new location sometime next year for more. You couldn’t ask for a nicer, more fun group of people!

Can you tell me what is it you like about getting spanked?

In a word: everything. But I guess that’s a boring answer.

Physically, I love the sensation of the impact, the pain that blends seamlessly into pleasure. The feeling of his hands, his thighs under my belly, the sound of his voice. Physiologically, I love the endorphin surge and all those delicious feelings that ensue. Emotionally, so many things… the power exchange. The pretense of not wanting it when we both know I do. The game of it: the tease, the anticipation, the banter, the push and the pull, the struggle—all the while knowing that he will win (and because of that, of course, so will I).

It’s sexy, it’s naughty, it’s (somewhat) forbidden and it’s fun.

What makes a good spanker for you?

Powerful hands, dexterity with implements, a calm voice and demeanor, a strong presence that commands to be taken seriously. A man who knows the difference between assertion and aggression, confidence and arrogance, and who can read me and know when it’s time to push and when to back off a bit. Someone strict and firm but caring, who knows how to caress as well as chastise. He respects limits, but knows when he can challenge them a little.

But what takes him from good to excellent is a mutual attraction, an emotional connection, and trust.

Do you/would you switch?

I do not; it’s not in me. I have a toppy personality, but I don’t have the capacity to inflict pain, no matter how much the other person wants it. I tried many years ago with John (he is a switch). I got dressed up in black lingerie and heels, and he had me flicking him with a riding crop. What a joke that was; every time he flinched, I’d stop and blurt, “Oh, honey, are you OK?” Some top!

I topped once on video, very briefly, and I still can’t watch that scene. I will never do that again.

Some people say that going from bottom to switch is a natural (and somewhat inevitable) progression in the scene. Not for this girl.

What spanking implements do you like and which do you not like?

I’m more partial to leather than to wood. It’s hard to say which implements are my favorites, since there are so many sizes, shapes and materials and no two are quite alike. I do love a man’s belt; not just the feel of it, but the snapping sound, the ritual of his unbuckling it, yanking it from the loops and doubling it. Hairbrushes hurt like crazy, but they work well with OTK and their classic look in a spanking scene is undeniable. I like some thinner, lighter wooden paddles that pack a sting, but one of my hard limits is the thick, heavy “frat-style” paddles.

Generally, if it stings and snaps, I like it, but if it strikes with a dull thud and feels like I’m getting hit with a 2 x 4, I’ll pass on it.

What does the future hold for Erica Scott?

I have no video plans at this point. Every time I do a shoot, I think it may be my last, because I’m a lot older than most video bottoms and my “career” has been a bit of an anomaly. But then someone or another always comes along and yanks me out of retirement, so who knows? I absolutely adore shooting, so I hope that will continue.

I’m toying with the idea of collecting all my “Correspondence Hall of Shame” entries from over the years and creating a book out of them. And of course, lots more blogging and lots more spanking!

You can see and read much more about Erica Scott’s spankings at her blog: Erica Scott: Life, Love & Spanking and you can find a copy of Erica’s book here!

Lilia Spinoza

Spank Place — Fri, 14 Oct 2011 22:22:19 +0000

You may have seen Lilia Spinoza on Clare Fonda’s new spanking movie “Exclusive Education 6″ where she plays a naughty cheerleader. On her website she says “I’m a full-time college student, part time belly dancer and model… My sense of humor ranges everywhere from dorky/ditzy to morbid/macabre, so I’m not easily offended, very easily amused, go-with-the-flow, and pleasant to work with.” Despite her day job of learning Lilia has already an impressive portfolio as a model and bellydancing and is set to take the spanking world by storm. While she may be new to spanking infront of the camera, she is well used to spanking…

I hardly know anything about you at all, can you tell me a bit about you please.

I’m a NERD, I draw fangs and smiles on my lab face-masks, I’ve been belly dancing since I was 13, I love roses, I like movies that don’t have happy endings, I put hot sauce and/or lemon on almost everything I eat, I love traveling, I LOVE tattoos and will get me some (eventually), I have sound effects, I was born and raised in LA, I want to move to Mars for its 25-hour-days, I like to draw (and am somewhat good at it), I’m a night owl, I like creepy/weird stuff, I’m a good listener, I like corny jokes, I would celebrate Halloween again on Christmas (and not just because it’s my birthday), I’m a visual learner/thinker and I would prefer to communicate via telepathic finger-painting if I could, Keroppi is my favorite Hello Kitty character, and I don’t like spam.

What came first for you, being a model or being a belly dancer? How did it all start?

Bellydancing came first. It all started when I was 13: My cousin was taking a Hawaiian dance class, and was constantly boasting about her tiny waist. Being the self-conscious, insecure, adolescent girl that I was, I too wanted a tiny waist, and I promptly went to my local parks and recreation center to sign up for Hawaiian dance. The class was full, so I signed up for belly dance, which I thought would do the trick as well. I kept at it, and after a few years, I got pretty good at it. It turned into an artistic exercise outlet for me. When I was 17, my teacher encouraged me to perform in showcases. I did, and it all snowballed from there.

When I was 22, I took my first steps into BDSM. I frequented the L.A. clubs quite a bit. Inevitably, I stumbled upon rope bondage, and quickly became an avid fan. I was lucky enough to meet and play with DonSir, who invited me to do my first photo shoot. It all escalated from there: I met models and photographers, and gradually started to shooting on a semi-regular basis..

We’re obviously not an expert at this but your bellydancing is very sexy, is it the same style as has always been danced or is that a modern style?

Most of my training has been classical Egyptian style. However, I also thoroughly enjoy bellydance “fusion”, which is the combination of styles and techniques of other dance forms with bellydance.

I like your portfolio, there’s one photo of you in a woolly hat crossing your eyes. Do you have any other special talents?

Yes! I can roll my tongue into a taco, and I can raise either eyebrow individually.

In Exclusive Education 6 (on Girl Spanks Girl) you appear as a cheerleader in Clare Fonda’s epic classroom spanking movie. Had you done any spanking before that? How did the shoot go?

I had done spanking before that: I had shot with Assume The Position Studios a few times prior to that. I had also done PLENTY of “recreational” spanking in BDSM. The shoot went delightfully well. Clare Fonda is wonderful to work with, all the girls were very helpful and friendly to each other, and the atmosphere was fun and easy-going. I had a wonderful time!

What made you decide to try a spanking shoot?

I had been encouraged before by a few photographers and some models to try it (they all said I have the butt for it). Additionally, spanking is something I really enjoy doing.

Do you like getting spanked? If so, what is it you like about it?

I love getting spanked! I like pain, I like the endorphin rush I get after experiencing pain, I like being submissive (to certain people), but I think my greatest contributor to my love of spanking is that I like having my bum played with.

What would be a perfect spanking for Lilia Spinoza?

I LOVE over-the-knee, bare-handed spanking; preferably by a male authority figure. After nice warm-up, I do like to progressively increase the intensity, with little breaks

Does spanking turn you on?

It depends on who is spanking me. My butt cheeks are like two giant “ON” buttons when the right person touches them.

Do you/would you switch?

Yes, I do switch. Although I haven’t done so for a shoot… yet

What other fetishes do you have?

I’m into Kinbaku (Japanese rope bondage), D/s, and pain in general.

What spanking implements do you like and which do you not like?

Bare hands are my favorite. My least favorite are paddles.

Any plans to do any more spanking shoots?

Absolutely I’ll be shooting again with Clare later this month.

You can see Lilia Spinoza’s portfolio and contact her at her website TheKillerBunny.com and you can see Lilia in action in Exclusive Education 6 at Girl Spanks Girl.

Sophia Locke

Spank Place — Sun, 12 Jun 2011 14:56:22 +0000

Sophia Locke is a lifestyle submissive who has recently burst onto the internet. She may be new but you may well have seen her at parties and she has already worked with the likes of Ron Jeremy and Clare Fonda. While she may look different in every movie, one thing you’ll notice is that Sophia loves her wigs and can always be seen wearing one. Sophia is an intoxicating mix of BDSM, spanking and sex, she says that among the craziest things she’s ever done are having sex in public on a ferris wheel and in a restaurant, and a 7 Brazilian guy gang bang. You can find out more and catch all the latest news at Sophia Locke’s official website.

Sophia was kind enough to speak to us in June 2011…

You were saying on your tumblr that you’ve had the fantasy of being captured since you were much younger. Can you describe what it is you like about being tied up?

That fantasy has been with me for as long as I can remember. As a little girl, I didn’t understand why I felt so strange every time a girl was tied up in a movie. I was always disappointed when the hero saved her. What turns me on the most with these scenes is the loss of control, the fear, and the idea of being used. I wanted the bad guy to abuse the poor helpless girl. I wanted him to rip off her clothes and make her vulnerable and scared. I also love the erotic energy that comes from struggling against someone. Of course I would hope to lose!

Can you tell us about your relationship to spanking. We’ve seen the photos of your bruised bottom after the pirate outfit spanking. It sounds like you’re not a fan of the bruising but you like being spanked. Everyone likes different aspects of spanking, what is it you like?

Actually, I really enjoy getting marks. It’s a nice reminder of what I went through every time I sit down for a few days afterward. The bruising that I received during my “pirate spanking” was pretty extreme, though. The reason it may have seemed like I wasn’t happy with it was because I couldn’t work on webcam while I was that bruised. I don’t want to scare away the vanillas!

What would be a perfect spanking for Sophia Locke?

I’ve actually had my perfect spanking! It started out with me requesting a OTK spanking from my Owner. He put me over His knee on the couch and it started out nicely. I decided to be a little bratty by trying to run away. I really enjoy the takedown and capture sort of play. He chased me around the room, grabbing me by my hair and forcing me down on my knees for more spankings. Each hit was more severe! He would tell me after each time that He was finished – our game was over. He used that line to get close to me again so He could hold me down and spank me more. Each individual spanking was almost over my limit of how much pain my body could take. Being on the edge of that pain eventually brought me to such a deep subspace that I was able to truly believe that I would never get away, that it would never end. I had tears streaming down my face and onto the carpet. I had given up. I felt like He could do anything to me and I would just take it. He played with my pussy for a while, telling me that He would loan me out to friends, that I could never escape Him. I have never been so turned on in my life! Of course, in the very back of my mind I knew it was a game. I could have never gone that far mentally (and enjoyed it) with someone that I didn’t trust so deeply.

Sophia gets spanked by Snow Mercy at a convention

Does spanking turn you on?

Absolutely! Because bare handed spanking can get very intense for me physically, it helps turn me on when there are mental aspects to it as well. I like being lectured while being spanked. When I did my scenes with Snow Mercy, she did a lot of lecturing. I was pleasantly surprised with how turned on I was!

You’ve been collared by M for a couple of years after you read his personal and liked it. What was it he said in his ad that was so scary?

I could tell by His writing that He was clearly intelligent, and He didn’t beat around the bush. He wrote about how long He had been involved with the scene and what He expected from potential submissives. His profile was aggressive without being arrogant. There was a part in bold that said, “I am the One who will expose you/ I am the One who will hurt you/ I am the One who will humiliate you/ I am the One who will cherish you.” It ended with: “you will learn to fear Me/ you will learn to serve me/ you will learn to love Me/ you will yearn to hate me.” It still makes me wet every time I read it. He also had blogs written by past slaves and submissives. They were heavy with public humiliation and punishment scenes that scared the shit out of me. All of that combined was the reason I contacted Him.

Do you have a D/s 24/7 lifestyle relationship? I’ve never understood how 24/7 can work when there are times when you’re grocery shopping, for example. How does it work?

As close as we can get to 24/7, yes. To use your example, I always push the grocery cart or hold the baskets when we go to the store. I have to ask permission to get any type of food or drink. Sweets and alcohol are considered treats and are usually not allowed unless it’s a special occasion. He gives me His grocery card and credit card at checkout, so I always complete the transaction. I am not allowed on the furniture at home without His permission. I also sleep in a cage and wear a special sleeping collar to bed. What I was hoping to get out of the relationship was negotiated before I was collared, so it’s completely consensual. The control over my life is what works for me, sexually. There are certainly large aspects to our relationship that are vanilla, though. I feel comfortable being myself and speaking as I wish most of the time. The main difference in our lifestyle compared to others is that He has the final say in what I do. Of course, there are times when I don’t want to do what I’m told and I can be quite bratty. I’m outspoken and dominant in my life outside of this, so that interferes with our dynamic at times. It’s hard work and a lot of fun, like most relationships.

Sophia playing with her Owner

Do you switch?

I don’t. I’m not interested in dominating men or women. What seems silly to me is that I know how it feels to sexually enjoy pain, but I still feel bad inflicting it on fellow masochists. Weird, I know!

We’re very glad that you did, but why did you go from being kinky in private to being kinky in public on your website?

When I realized I wanted to try webcam and video work to make a living, it was a difficult decision to actually act on. A lot of my life revolves around my sexuality, so it seemed like a natural thing for me to do and something that I have no regrets doing. It’s scary knowing that your face is out there, though. The dichotomy between my vanilla work and lifestyle outside of work was eating away at me, so it was the right thing to do.

Your website seems to cover everything from sex to BDSM and everything inbetween. Which scenes do your members enjoy the most? Which are the most fun to shoot?

I’ve only shot a few videos. As far as webcam work goes, my guys (and gals!) like to personally have control over me. I give that to them in the best way I can while staying within my personal limits. It’s a really interactive way for all of us to get off!

I really liked the fun section, especially the Monday Night Fuckball. Do you actually play those games?

I do! I also play Jack Off Jenga, Battlestrip, Pussy Bingo, and a few others. They make my shows fun for me and the people watching. Monday Night Fuckball works like a football pool, but with more fun prizes than normal football pools.

Sophia Locke in a schoolgirl outfit gets spanked by Snow Mercy on Spanked Sweeties

I’ve not watched the movie yet but I gather you were spanked by Snow Mercy on Spanked Sweeties? How were the scenes?

I adore Snow! She’s such a professional and a really good person. It certainly doesn’t hurt that she’s very hot to scene with, too. The scenes were so much fun! I got very lucky, considering it was my very first spanking video shoot. Snow Mercy and I had played previously at a party, so I knew I was going to be comfortable with her. She’s very respectful of limits and really gets into it!

Is there a difference for you between being spanked by a man or a woman?

As I mentioned before, the lecturing during our scene really got me going. With women, spanking usually feels more like a fun and silly thing. It can get intense but I feel more playful about it than with men. When I am spanked by a man (especially my Owner), it feels more animalistic and raw. It’s a different headspace that I get into. I feel the same way about those differences when fucking men as opposed to women.

What spanking implements do you like and which do you not like?

I actually haven’t had an implement used on me that I haven’t at least grown to like eventually. Some of my favorites are paddles, canes, floggers, and most recently a dragon’s tail.

What does the future hold for Sophia Locke?

I would love to eventually run a production company with my Owner that specializes in videos featuring women in submissive roles that truly enjoy the mental and physical aspects of submission. Right now I’m really enjoying my webcam work and look forward to doing more videos. I feel blessed that I have the opportunity to be picky about the people I work with as well as the scenes I’m in. You’ll be seeing a lot more of me!

You can see and read plenty more about Sophia from the links below…

Pandora Blake

Spank Place — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 22:54:27 +0000

Pandora Blake is a pretty, brunette spanking model from the UK. She has appeared on many spanking sites including British spanking websites Northern Spankings and Bars and Stripes. Not only does she let us see her getting spanked in her scenes, but Pandora also writes about her thoughts and experiences in her excellent blog Spanked, Not Silenced and also her personal website Pandora’s Bot.

We caught up with Pandora in April 2010.

When was your first spanking? How did you get into it? What turned you on to it?

I’m going to have to answer these separately, I think. I don’t know what turned me on to spanking, but I know that fantasising about kinky stuff was one of my very first memories, and I was very aware of my secret desires all through my childhood. I was first turned on to spanking at a very young age. By the time I started school my guilty interest in it was already fully formed.

My first consensual spanking experience was actually as a top. When I was 13 my best friend was 15, and she and I used to fool around. We never dated, but there were lots of clandestine caresses after lights out. She preferred to play roleplay games – I guess she felt safer being in character than accepting that she might be bisexual or gay – and one night, one of our roleplays led to spanking. I initiated it and I put her over my knee. She let me smack her a few times, but she was very nervous in case her parents (who were asleep in the same house, would you believe!) overheard, so I stopped and let her up. I found it very hot, but at the same time I knew that what I wanted most was to be spanked myself.

I got my chance three years later. I was friends with a boy who liked me, but at that age I was pretty sure I was gay, so I’d told him nothing would happen. We talked a lot, and realised we shared a lot of interests – including spanking, bondage and other kinky stuff. We browsed anime and BDSM porn online and eventually he asked if I’d like to play sometime. I thought it over, and a few days later came back and said sure. I was so desperate to experiment, this seemed like the chance of a lifetime. He was my friend, and I trusted him. But I made very sure he understood it would be just as friends, because I didn’t have romantic feelings for him.

It turned out to be the most incredibly intense scene. We played a silence game I’d fantasised about. He whipped me with a riding crop and if I made a sound, I got two more strokes. The whipping eventually ended somewhere over a hundred when both of us had lost count. I was so aroused I could barely speak. We played again a couple of weeks later, and after that I accepted that I must be bisexual after all, and we got together. We had great fun for a couple of years, but split up amicably when I went to university.

I’ve just been reading your blog. You’re very frank and descriptive about your sexuality and lovemaking, and it’s very well-written indeed. The thing that leaps out at me from reading “About Me” is that you have 2 Doms. What’s it like having two Doms?

Thankyou! It’s lovely of you to say so.

Having two Doms – you know, I’m really not sure I can generalise. I imagine it’s totally different depending on who your partners are. It means I get to share my life with two different people who share different aspects of my interests and stimulate me in different ways. The two D/s dynamics are very different. They’re both very good for me, but I get different things from each of them.

It also means that if one of them is stressed or tired, I can lean on the other one for strength and patience to feed back to the person who needs it. And it means if one of them isn’t in the mood to spank me, I can always ask the other! The arrangement is founded on mutual trust, respect and lots of communication. We have an IRC channel just for the three of us, and we hang out and chat in there most days.

What do you mean by “feminist ethos” in your spanking films?

This is such a huge question I think I’m going to have to write a book on it someday! I’m trying to answer this question through my blog at the moment. Firstly, I think it’s about treating all your models, but especially male and female spankees, with dignity and respect. That means treating them like royalty during the shoot, and not calling them a “dirty whore” in the marketing for the films. It’s also about presenting kink and sexuality in a positive, affirming way – so no women being spanked for being “slutty”, or anyone being made to feel ashamed for their sexuality.

I’m trying to overturn some of what I see as sexist standards in the industry. Feminist spanking porn should focus on the female gaze – that’s what women are looking for in erotic material. It means sexy male tops and spankees, as well as sexy female ones. I want hunky male tops with voices that will take my breath away, and vulnerable boys who have beautiful spankable bottoms. For me, it also means writing scenarios with interesting, plausible stories, and characters who have developed personalities and aren’t just a bit of flesh. And most importantly, it means everyone involved in making it should have fun, should never be made to feel pressured or uncomfortable.

Some of the porn I want to make is very edgy and intense, so if I’m filming a very nasty non-consensual scenario, it can be difficult to communicate this ethos through the stories themselves. This is why blogging is so important, so that the models – this is especially important for submissive models – have a voice which transcends that of their mistreated character in the film. It makes the industry more transparent and helps everyone stay safer. And it means that even if you’ve just watched a nail-bitingly difficult scene, you can read the spankee’s version of events, and hear why they did it and what they got out of it. For me that’s a huge part of my enjoyment, especially with more violent scenes.

How did you become a spanking model? What was the first time like?

This is kind of a long story and I’ve actually already told it on my blog – do you mind if I link to that? The short version is that I started out doing nude modelling while I was a student. I already had a bit of experience of kink from playing with lovers, and after I’d done a bit of bondage modelling I was invited to do a simulated stills spanking shoot. I loved it, insisted on taking 6 real strokes of the cane, and have never looked back.

Do you have a high tolerance of pain? Do you bruise easily? What are your limits?

I’ve been told I have a pretty high tolerance. I tend not to enjoy a spanking unless I feel pushed, but my tolerance definitely changes from day to day. Some days the lightest of spankings will be a huge challenge – other days it feels like I can take it indefinitely. These days I don’t bruise easily, like most people who play regularly.

My limits would take a whole other essay to describe! One thing I never do with anyone is cunt punishment. In some ways I’m a bit of a pain slut, but my cunt is the one part of my body no-one is allowed to hurt.

How do you like to be spanked? What would be the perfect spanking?

It varies depending on the person and the day. I enjoy different things from different spankers. Right now, I would quite like a slow-paced, deep, erotic spanking. Very hard, very slow, with lots of caresses and murmured encouragement. Perhaps starting with hand and then moving on to my heavy leather paddle. I like earning the respect of my Dom by being brave and obedient, and then being taken to the next level and tested all over again.

Has your taste in spanking changed since you first got into it?

It’s definitely broadened since I started spanking modelling. I find most of the scenes I see in my work hot in one way or another, and I feel like my kink has expanded and stretched. It’s like the more you exercise that part of your brain, the more active it is. As I’ve grown up I’ve got better at identifying and enforcing my personal boundaries and not taking any shit from people, so every scene I play these days, I enjoy to the full. I feel like I’m getting kinkier as I get older, but thinking back to my childhood I was always pretty kinky!

Do you ever switch?

Not really. I switch sometimes on shoots, in certain contexts – playing the bullying prefect or angry older sister. I can’t manage to play a proper authority figure, although I might learn as I get older. I enjoy admiring the bodies of pretty men and women, and I definitely enjoy the physical act of spanking when I get the chance to do it. Psychologically, though, unless I’m acting I feel utterly silly and out of place whenever I try, so it doesn’t happen much.

I sometimes think that less corporal punishment happens than it used to, maybe in the future no-one will be into spanking. What do you think?

I actually think the opposite! My experience is that kink is becoming more common as it is better accepted and understood, not less. Whenever I speak to spankos who were punished at school there’s usually a conflict in them, a tension between the trauma of going through this humiliating, violent experience which they definitely didn’t consent to, and the confusing desire of being confronted with something they’d fantasised about. Consensual, kinky play is as different from non-consensual CP as good sex is from rape; I don’t think one is predicated on the other.

I predict that CP will remain in our collective imaginations for a very long time, and we will have a wealth of historical contexts to fantasise about long after our species has evolved beyond the point of thinking it’s okay to beat children. I hope future generations will be free to enjoy consensual kink without being haunted by the shadow of real abuse.

Whats in the future for Pandora?

Well, I’m hoping to launch my own tiny, pay-per-download spanking site this summer, although progress is being delayed at the moment by various things. That’s just going to be a very simple page, and I’ll continue working behind the scenes on the full members site, which will probably launch sometime next year.

After that – well, who knows? I’d like to continue modelling for a few more years at least, as I’ve got loads of scenarios I want to act out before I stop. I expect that eventually I’ll want to focus more on writing, production and editing, but at the moment that feels a long way off. I also hope to write a book or two at some point – there’s that one about feminism and spanking porn which needs writing, for a start! – but I haven’t given the plan much serious thought.

I hope my D/s relationships will stay strong and get deeper. I’ve thrived on living alone for the past few years, but there’s talk of my moving in with one of my boys sometime soon (I’m not telling which yet!). I wouldn’t be surprised if that means spanking became a much bigger part of my day to day life. The idea of having household rules and duties, and of being spanked every day regardless, is so thrilling and comforting, somehow. I’m looking forward to it.

For more of Pandora’s discussion on spanking and all things kinky, aswell as some previews of the scenes she’s appeared in, check out Pandora Blake’s Blog.

Pixie

Spank Place — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 10:48:32 +0000

Pixie (also called Amber Pixie Wells) is one of the most-loved and well-known spanking models around today. The cute blonde is not only a spanking model, she is also webmaster, producer, director, photographer, and many other roles. The talented and lovely American from the east coast of the US tells us all about herself and thoughts on spanking on her blog aswell as starring in, designing and directing Punished Brats. Pixie was kind enough to answer these questions in January 2010…

I’ve been reading your interview on spreview and you say there that you’ve always had a high pain threshold. Do you like being spanked very hard and having your limits tested?

It’s not so much that I want to constantly test my limits but that I want to be spanked hard enough that I do not in any way have to fake a reaction. I want to truly feel punished even if it’s within the context of a scene.

Also on the limits topic, everyone is different but I’ve heard a lot about subspace and how you may not be able to say stop whilst in the middle of a spanking. How does this affect you and how do you stay in control of yourself during a scene?

For those very intense scenes where that might occur, I have to feel 110% safe and trusting of the person that is going to be giving the spanking to know to check in or be able to read my body language to know when enough is enough.

How do you like to be spanked in a scene? How is this different, if at all, from a private spanking with your husband?

I like my scenes to be disciplinary in nature. They can have an element of humor or be straight forward punishment for a misdeed, but I love the discipline aspect as opposed to moaning in pleasure sexual spankings. The spankings I receive from my husband cover a wider range. Many times he’ll give me a few swats just for fun or mock discipline (a spanking for a silly excuse), sometimes full, hard punishment sessions when I need them, and on occasion more playful spankings that lead to romantic activity. That sort of spanking is reserved for my hubby only.

I’ve heard someone say that there is a skill to being a sub in a scene. Are you better in the scenes you’re in now than when you first started out? What changed?

I always strive to constantly improve in everything I do – from improving on camera performance to lifting heavier weights at the gym to growing a bigger garden. Never stop learning, never stop growing. So yes, I hope that I’ve improved since I first started.

What I think has changed most is my comfort level with the camera. I always knew that I had an ability to take a hard spanking, but I was very intimidated by having to speak on camera and react to the spankings. I was afraid I’d say something stupid of that my reactions would look awkward. Now, I really enjoy the opportunity to take on the role of a sassy brat or a ditzy cheerleader. I have far less of a problem speaking up and I enjoy getting to cry, yell, kick, and squirm through my spanking. I think it helps convey the intensity of what I’m feeling to the viewers better that way.

As a fan, it seems to me that a lot of the time female tops spank harder than male tops. It seems that the men are too respectful. Any truth to this? What makes a good top?

I haven’t found this to necessarily be the case. I have received and watched very hard spankings given by both male and female spankers.

For me, a good top is one that holds safety as his number one priority, respects limits, and is eager to find mutual interest within the scene so that both he and the bottom are happy and satisfied after the spanking.

Do you have a fav scene / type of scene on Punished Brats?

This may sound silly, but I really like getting to play the ditzy, naughty cheerleader. Perhaps this is because that is the total opposite of who I was in high school. I was the quiet, straight A, band geek, wallflower who would never cause trouble. I also love getting disciplined by a school authoritarian and it’s even better when I have another girl getting punished alongside me.

Which of the brats on Punished Brats are hot at the moment? Anyone to look out for in the future? As a producer/director what makes a good brat?

I’d say all of them are hot!! We are very fortunate to have had amazing girls and big fan favourites such as Lily Anna, Bronte, Mischa, Tina Tink, and Lilly Page come and work with us this past year and we look forward to having them back again throughout 2010. Of course we will also be introducing some fresh faces as well. We have a new brat Lorraine filming with us for the January shoot and a few more girls lined up for the spring.

We like the girls to be reactive and have a bit of sass in their character. We don’t want them to quietly submit to their punishment and then lie motionless throughout their spanking. We want a bit of fire in their personality as a fire is lit on their bottoms.

Your blog is amazing, I like the pretty photos and discussions/rants. Do you enjoy writing it?

I absolutely love writing for my blog! I’ve never been able to keep a journal or diary before, but the interactive nature of the blog thanks to all of the wonderful readers who provide feedback and comments motivates me to post faithfully. I greatly enjoy having a place to share my thoughts about spanking as well as my day-to-day life and vanilla pursuits and the opportunity to relate to others that may share similar interests. The sense of community is fantastic.

I must admit though that at times I can find blogging stressful. I fuss over what to post – am I posting enough photos? Too many? Will what I say be interpreted correctly or potentially be inflammatory? What topic can I visit that I haven’t already written about? The occasional panic of OMG, my next update is due and I am short on time and/or ideas. Yeah, I get a little stressed, but it’s certainly a labor of love and I only stress out because it’s something I’m passionate about.

You were saying in a rant that the sub shouldn’t be too eager to jump over the top’s lap. Let’s be clear that we only approve of consensual spankings. In terms of a spanking fantasy, is being forced to submit to a spanking against your will a fantasy that you’ve had?

In general, of course it’s more than fine for a sub to jump over a top’s lap. Within the context of consensual play, the sub wants to get spanked. But if you’re doing a role play or a scene in which the spanking is supposed to be punishment and it’s not desired, it seems odd to me to say “no, please don’t spank me” and then do an eager swan dive over the knee to get spanked.

My fantasies tend to run towards discipline, school discipline being a major favourite of mine. I’m not looking for something terrifying or torturous, but I do like a strict authoritative figure to order me into taking a spanking that I’ve earned but do not want.

There seems to be a few different kinds of subs, some like the physical feeling of being spanked, others like the “roleplay” (getting told off) part and others like the humiliation or the attention or the loss of control. What is it about spanking that you’re into? If you like the physical feeling do you like the pain as it is happening or the feeling afterwards?

I like the anticipation of a spanking. Not necessarily the telling off, but knowing that my fate is sealed and I’m about to be punished. I then hate the initial pain of the spanking, when the sting and burn is at its worst. My enjoyment of the experience reaches another peak about midway through when I am feeling each smack of the spanking, but the skin is warm and my adrenaline has kicked in so more of the “thud” feeling is registering. Towards the end of the spanking when I’m not able to take much more, it’s once again very unpleasant. When the spanking is all over, I do enjoy the feelings afterwards. I’m relaxed, totally spent, and I even enjoy the deep muscle soreness that may linger for a few days reminding me of the spanking I took.

See and read more of Pixie and her spankings at…

Amelia Jane Rutherford

Spank Place — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 11:59:58 +0000

If there is such a thing as spanking superstars, then Amelia Jane Rutherford is definitely one of a very select few. The English bondage and spanking model goes by the name of Amelia for spanking and Ariel Anderssen for her bondage work. Amelia has worked with nearly everyone from Firm Hand Spanking to Clare Fonda to Dallas Spanks Hard.

This interview took place in February 2009.

When was your first spanking?

It was very late I’m afraid. I was thinking about spanking for a long time but the first time I was spanked was when I was 23. So I waited a long time for that to happen.

When I was about 18 I realized that my childhood was definitely behind me and the time when you are most at risk of being spanked is in your childhood. And I realized that mine had certainly passed with no spanking happening. And I remember thinking at the age of 18 sort of thinking “oh no, I’ve missed that opportunity, obviously no-ones going to spank me now because I’m a grownup”. I remember thinking that’s really sad and I started wondering what job I could go into that would make it more likely that something like spanking would happen. I couldn’t think of one at all. I thought maybe the army, I’d get captured and tortured but that really wasn’t what I wanted to happen. No I wanted spanking. And so no, I remember being quite in despair really.

Was the first time with a boyfriend?

Yes. He’s my ex boyfriend. So my first spanking was with someone I now have no respect for and no relationship with. And, of course, looking back my first spanking was rubbish because he didn’t know what he was doing. But, of course, at the time it was the most exciting thing in the world. But I suppose, while that was the first time I was spanked the first time it properly happened was when I went to my first spanking shoot, because then I was working with a professional who knew exactly what he was doing. I remember I was very very frightened because I thought I don’t actually know how much this is going to hurt. You know, I’d watched a lot of videos but I’d had no idea how bad this was going to be. [The shoot] started and I thought “oh no, I’m not into this, this really hurts”. But then afterwards I enjoyed remembering it so I thought “no, the kink’s still there!”

Why do you think that professionals spank hard and boyfriends and girlfriends don’t?

It’s very interesting how much variety there is in how hard spanking is considering it’s the same thing, everyone’s using their hand, if we just talk about hand-spanking. And I think obviously loads of people play around with spanking in the bedroom. Even if they’re not particularly into it. And, I guess, that kind of spanking can be quite light and quite playful. But if you’re really wanting to make a good video or if you’re really wanting to play seriously it’s a whole different experience. And in my experience of doing it for fun and at work it seems like people who have been doing it for a while, I’m not sure what happens to their hands, maybe their hands get desensitized. Because actually spanking someone, if you’ve never done it before, really hurts your hand. I tried it a couple of times. I don’t like it, it’s not my scene, but I tried it and the pain in your hand is much worse than the pain of being spanked. So I think these people who have been doing it for a while get like this weapon on the end of their arm. And, you know it’s scary, you know if you meet one of those people.

Do you prefer playing for fun vs. working?

When I’m playing for fun I like things to feel quite serious. So, I don’t like playful spanking ever. I like it always to feel real and always to feel like a serious event. So, I’m sure there are people who can take it harder at work than they want to in their personal life, for me it might even be the other way round. In a movie I’m always a little bit distracted by trying to do a good job and trying to look nice. But, in my private life, I can concentrate on nothing except the spanking. And so then I think maybe my tolerance goes up in private.

Something about subs and dommes…

Sometimes when I’m playing or even at a video shoot I sometimes feel quite guilty because the person who’s getting all the sensation of the spanking, which obviously for people who like it is great, is the sub. So the sub gets all the sensation, most of the physical experience of the spanking is felt by me, the bottom. Sometimes I think, because I’m not a top and don’t switch, that I just can’t see what you get out of it if you’re the top or the domme. And I guess I never really will. Some people try to explain it to me but it just seems like such a removed way of getting pleasure, but for me I’m getting the sensation, I’m getting the endorphins and I’m getting the adrenaline and that’s lovely. I wish I could see it from the top’s point of view but I guess I never will.

You said that people who give a lot of spankings get harder hands. Has your bottom developed a tolerance too?

Well, the first time I did a spanking movie it was moderately intense but not over the top at all and my whole bottom went black, pure bruising for over a week. And then the next few times I did a spanking video the same thing, terrible bruising. And then my bottom started to recover much faster and bruise less. Now it has to be something quite severe in order to get really bad marks for more than a day. Unfortunately the pain I feel is exactly the same as the first time and I don’t think that’s ever going to change now. I do know girls who have been doing it for long enough that their tolerance keeps getting higher and they need more to get themselves to the same level of excitement. But for me every time is kind of like a first time, but my bottom is telling a different story really.

What is it that you like about a spanking?

Some masochists or submissives say it’s about the pain, and for those people even hurting themselves they can get some pleasure from it. So from time to time they might not have a partner and they say “oh well, I just do so and so to myself”. Now that doesn’t appeal to me at all because for me it’s all about being controlled. So for me I can have a really fun spanking session or BDSM session and there doesn’t actually have to be any spanking there can be all these other things that make me think all my control has been taken away from me and that I’m being punished. So, it’s not all about the sensation, although I like the sensation. I think I would agree with people who say it’s all about the feeling afterwards rather than the feeling at the time. Certainly during the first spanking I ever experienced that’s exactly what I felt, I felt my gosh, this is just horrible, then afterwards I thought “mmm yeah it’s horrible” [cheeky grin] So yeah I think I might be one of those people who isn’t a true masochist, it’s much more from my temperament that I get my pleasure I think.

It’s tricky talking about the things I like as well as spanking because I know that some people that love spanking don’t like the other stuff that for me goes along with it quite naturally. So all my life I’ve fantasized about spanking alongside being kidnapped, tied up or abused or just treated really badly by someone in authority. So, for me there’s a really wide variety of stuff that I like to do and I like to do in movies. But for me I either have to do straight spanking in movies or I have to go and do a bondage movie. And there’s not much that does both unless I was prepared to do hardcore work, which I’m not. So at home, because I get to do loads of spanking movies, I tend to like things that are a bit more subtle and a bit more psychological. So, at my house there are lots of house rules that I have to keep. And it wouldn’t make a good movie because it’s far too subtle and not very visual, but it gives me a lot of happiness. And for me it makes me feel very similar to how being spanked makes me feel.

It sounds like a really subtle form of roleplaying.

My fantasy life involves a lot more storytelling and the stories I tell in my head are kind of complicated. I certainly know people who could totally fantasize about a hand coming down on their bottom and they way that felt, but for me I need to know why, who the person doing it is so all this has to be constructed in my head before it starts to be a fantasy. So my fantasies are quite complicated and that’s one reason I really like making spanking movies because you get to play out the whole story leading up to the spanking. Which is why I like to make spanking movies a lot more than I like to make spanking clips. Because a five minute clips just doesn’t have time for a great big story about what a naughty girl you’ve been, whereas a movie definitely does and that’s where I get a lot of my pleasure from.

Favourite spanking fantasy?

My favourite spanking fantasies change quite a lot but they split into two branches.

The first is getting spanked for something I definitely did by someone who has the moral high ground by someone who is quite kind but very stern. A good example of this would be your classic school fantasy. I’ve just been appalling and this kind teacher, who’s getting no pleasure in having to punish me, punishes me anyway, just for my own good. That’s really hot.

But, the other branch of my main fantasies is being treated really badly and being very much the innocent victim. And, in that kind of fantasy I’m wearing a white dress and am very scared and very victim-y and the person doing the spanking is a cruel Viking warlord or something and definitely does not have the moral high ground, just has the power.

So those are my two favourite families of fantasies. If I’m looking for a fantasy I’d always go to those two first.

Chicken and egg theory. Does porn create certain fantasies?

In my experience porn doesn’t create a taste in you. I feel like you already have sexual tastes and go find something that matches it. Because certainly I’ve watched examples of porn that weren’t my thing and it did nothing for me. I’ve watched balloon fetish and it hasn’t spoken to me personally. No, I feel like your sexual identity is fixed by the time you’re old enough to see porn. I can see that if you got hold of it when you were very young it would certainly affect you. But when I hear people talking about the power of pornography to change people they’re always talking about other people, it’s not changed them. I don’t see porn having the power to do that myself, for me.

Spanking implements?

Before I got spanked if you’d have asked me what I fantasized about being hit with I’m not entirely sure because all I remember is fantasizing about the scenarios so when I moved into doing spanking stuff professionally I wasn’t sure what the options were implement-wise. But then I did some research and I discovered that the cane is really the thing to be scared of. So the first time I was caned I hated it but it was the thing I found myself thinking about the most afterwards. So, for me it’s very complicated, the things I like most are the things I hate most, and the things I can take and feel ok with I guess don’t excite me so much.

So, there’s the intimacy of hand spanking and I think that most spankees would agree that it’s the most personal of all the CP implements and if I can’t be hand spanked I rather have the complete opposite extreme and have the most formal, terrifying scary implement.

I don’t like paddles because I just find them a bit too scary and not in a good way. As the paddle’s going back and I know it’s going to hit me in my head I have this picture of my pelvis just splitting in two from the impact. Whereas no other implement makes me feel like that so there’s something about the paddle, it just seems like to heavy an implement to me to meet with flesh. But everything else I actually like.

Any kind of fantasy you haven’t done but would like to? And why?

My fantasies change quite a lot so I don’t ever think I’ll get to the stage where I’ll have run out of spanking fantasies and move onto something else. I like the idea of being spanked by someone who isn’t English, just for being English for all the crimes we’ve committed over the centuries. That just came out of nowhere and I feel like I’ll always have fantasies like that, that just come out of nowhere. No I feel like I’ll never get to the end of the fantasy world.

Favourite Position?

My favourite position is an unoriginal one, it’s probably what most people like, and it’s over the knee. And I like it because you can be held down while you’re spanked, which is one of my favourite things. So normally if you see my movies you’ll see my arm flail out like that to protect my bottom. And it’s not usually not because I want to protect my bottom, it’s usually because I want them to do the best thing which is grabbing my arm and putting it behind my back. So, I think that will always be my favourite position.

But, that said I like formal punishments, so really formal exposed kind of positions, maybe on a trestle or over an A-frame, something like that would make me quite happy as well because it feels quite judicial, which I like.

Men / women spanking you and why?

All my fantasies all my life have been about men spanking me. Never fantasized about a woman spanking me and I guess that’s simply down to the fact that I’m heterosexual. The idea of a girl doing it never really did much for me. That said, as a professional spankee, I do scenes from time to time with a woman doing it. And I have found that it is certainly a different experience for me but because it’s a woman for some reason I really feel this responsibility to be quite brave. I don’t mind making this big fuss and crying all over a man but I’m certainly not prepared to do that with a woman spanking me. So I feel a lot more competitive because a lot of the ladies who are spanking you as a top started off as a bottom so I certainly don’t want them thinking “oh dear, she’s not very tough, is she” So, actually the experience is very different, less sexy but quite interesting for me.

So, spankings are sexual?

I don’t think that if spankings weren’t sexual for me, I don’t think I could take the pain of them. Because I don’t have a high pain tolerance, some people just do, and I don’t. And I know that from time to time a shoot will happen that really isn’t my cup of tea or I’m not feeling particularly comfortable with the person doing the spanking or something else has gone wrong or I’m not feeling very well.. and I notice that because I’m not finding it very sexual at all, all I can notice is how much it hurts. And this doesn’t happen very much at all, but on those occasions I’ve thought “bloody hell, what am I doing? This is a terrible way of making a living” So no, if it’s not sexual I can’t really take it to be honest.

In that case, if you don’t do porn but you do spanking, isn’t that the same thing?

You could certainly argue that shooting spanking movies is like shooting porn, and I can’t argue with that. I can’t argue with the fact that for some people it would seem like exactly the same thing. To me I suppose I wanted to do it so much I didn’t really care. As a mainstream model I’d worked out what my limits were and I so wanted to do spanking that I don’t think I can afford to care what people might think it is or isn’t. I’m just going to do it and I’m going to do it under my terms, which means that I’m not going to suddenly have someone using a vibrator on me just because they’ve been allowed to spank me. I’m not going to do open leg shots just because I’m doing spanking work. I’m going to do spanking and that’s going to be it. And something that I’ve been quite strict about is not shooting sexual scenes, so I don’t like to do scenes where my character is supposed to be getting sexual pleasure from being spanked. I want to keep it as a quite straight punishment scenario. And how sexual people find that to watch.. well I hope they do find it sexual, of course, but for me it’s a world away from shooting something that is explicitly sexual because I think the sexuality of spanking is much more complicated and hidden that the sexuality of a porn film.

Read more of Amelia’s thoughts at her blog.. Amelia Jane Rutherford’s blog

See more of Amelia Jane Rutherford’s work at her Spanking Models List Profile

Emma Bishop

Spank Place — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 10:47:22 +0000

Emma Bishop is an English spanko and lives in the Midlands/South East area of England. You may know of her spanking adventures from her website The Trouble with Emma. I caught up with Emma in October 2009…

Hi Emma, I’ve just been reading your blog. What is your spanking school?

Spanking school? Well, I think in my blog that’s a turn of phrase when I talk about having mentoring i.e. ‘going back to school’? It’s not an actual place but a situational state. I have had on/off periods when I was ‘back at school’ and it’s about having that discipline.

I know you’ve said that you do a lot of improvisation, when you are playing do you trust the other person enough to just roll with it from the outset? Or do you say in advance what you’re going to do?

That’s a great question! I have been so very lucky with the people I have worked with, and those I have seriously role played with in that without exception all have been natural leaders. Playing opposite a strong authoritative person naturally gets me into my space and I’m so ‘there’. My job is easy, who wouldn’t be with such great actors to play alongside Yes, I trust them because I am strong on trusting my instincts and going with the flow. I never rely on a script but just feelings and my method acting style.

Can you tell me a bit about the UK spanking scene?

The scene? Well, I’m not really a scenie. I go to events and parties but its most often social or some kind of PR for me. Here goes though… My view is that the UK scene is probably more open than most. There are forums such as British Spanking, Fetlife, Informed Consent and ALT. People can buddy up either online or pop along to a munch (daytime meal/drink in a vanilla setting) or, go to an organized non-professional party run by shared kinksters. On the professional side, there are private 121’s pretty much as the oldest trade has always been (lol!), and parties run on a professional basis. Additionally the girls appear in spanking movies and photo shoots. Now is that enough info for a non UK person?!

Haha, awesome

Oh, I went to a party in Copenhagen once when I was shooting there and it was VERY cloak and dagger like something out of ‘Allo Allo’ lol!!

Or like Eyes Wide Shut?

Haven’t seen that yet, Nicole Kidman?

Yeah, and Tom Cruise, the book’s good too. Check it out.

Yes I will, if its anything like The Secretary (which I can bore you for ages about parallels and how spooked I was when I saw it), then I’m sure it will touch a nerve!

Wow, cool, I DO want to ask u about The Secretary but first, how did u get to go to a cloak and dagger spanking party in Denmark?

I was doing a shoot there and my friend/associate at the time managed to find out about a club on the outskirts of town. It was more of a BDSM type party but run by people who knew each other really well, very much like a family type atmosphere in a village hall lol! When we got there we were quizzed on who tipped us off, how we knew them etc and eventually managed to talk ourselves in.

It felt like being in an old style western though being looked at like “Hey Sheriff, lookey here, there’s a stranger in town!” (hee hee)

[They had some] some good props, spanking benches etc, like a play room in a small BDSM club anywhere really. Apart from the skæreost lol (just kidding!!) That’s Danish cheese

Did you like that party?

Well, I had a bit to drink and we played semi privately. I was tied to a stand and it was more erotic play, light flogging etc, and of course the cane. We got invited back and to their Summer Camp but I haven’t been able to go. [It’s] a nice memory now.

Now you’re a part of their community, cool. Sounds like fun! Do you like BDSM as well?

I’ve been embroiled in oh-so-long debates about what constitutes ‘BDSM’. At one time I said I was only into spanking and can still clearly see a line between BDSM and DD (Domestic Discipline). I am more heavily in the DD camp but over the past few years have dabbled into BDSM territory. Things like hot candle wax, Estim machines, pony play and bondage. When I tried them I giggled and had great fun. I’d always thought of it as being heavy and that I had to be deadly serious and in the headspace. Once I realized it is also about relaxation and that I can also relax and enjoy it as an experience, it was easier. Now I am curious and admit I like a bit more of it!

BUT.. I’m not a slut/slave victim or doormat guys so please, no more lewd attempts to get me to turn That goes to a few who have dated me and one in particular who asked me if id mind having shit thrown at me, as his previous slave loved it!!

The secretary is one of those iconic movies, I’ve seen the poster everywhere, but I’ve never watched the movie. Were you into spanking when you first saw it?

Oh by far, hell yes! But, I didn’t realize that I had had ‘the secretary’ experience myself until I saw it in the film. The moment when she waits for him to come back and punish her, and waits, and waits. I cried when I saw it and was shaking, it was a weird experience like “OMG that happened to me, I know EXCATLY what she is feeling! He didn’t come and a denial experience like that is one of the most painful things that has ever happened to me as a submissive.

I’m going to buy that DVD on Amazon today, does she get spanked?

Ok, look out for that moment. Yes, but the spanking looks very un-authentic. To the viewer it is erotic enough to hear it and know it’s going on but to any experienced spankophile we all know it was heavily staged. Maggie Gyllenhaal is actually a great actress, I have seen her in movies since and I admire her for taking that part she was superb in it and got the character and her feelings and emotions spot on.

I would have love that part since I have now acted a lot more for real.

Emma gets the riding crop from Donna Davenport at Northern Spanking

You mention acting, how’s that going?

Slow lol!! I don’t have a time limit on anything but will take every chance I ever get. It’s rather like being an Olympic athlete, staying in training and being prepared are the most important tools. It is the hardest thing to break into though. As someone said.. “Acting is a terrible way to make a living but a wonderful way to live a life” ..So true!

As for spanking movies, I am always ready for the call but am not out there chasing them. I hope my so called bad girl reputation goes before me and that is enough of a challenge

Think Katherina and Petruchio haha

Hehe. Your first ever spanking was with a retired headmaster who placed an ad for girls to spank. At the time, had you had thoughts about spankings, and just saw an ad in a paper or online? Or had you started talking to other spankos?

I had always had thoughts about it, but all private. I thought it was something not to talk about and didn’t know there was a whole world of people into it. I guessed that if people were advertising then it must be relatively safe as they probably had to give their personal details to be able to post an Ad. I was very naive for a long time and looking back got into some scrapes that could have been hairy but thankfully I only ever met lovely safe trustworthy souls

That’s good! So, reading some of your answers it seems to me that the scared feeling, is a big part of spanking for you.

It is the height of the whole experience for me, but it has to feel real, or else I draw on my training to trigger it. When I really am scared, I am there in a personal way and it affects me such that I take a long time to come down afterwards. That’s has only happened a few times in my career but that’s as it should be, Special moments by their nature need something far out to make them happen.

Leia Ann Woods is on the other end of the cane. “I admire and love her work, although to say much as Ms. Woods is deadly with a cane I prefer to see her getting hers!” Photo courtesy of Northern Spanking

I know that you weren’t spanked growing up but that you recall one time when your dad took off his belt and that was all you needed to be good. So, I guess as a child, and when your dad took off his belt, that made you scared, and stuck with you so when u saw the ad you had to respond.

Yes it was the taking off of the belt feeling. The waiting, the telling off, the anticipation, the not knowing, that is the most real experience anyone can have I think.

So it is scary, but it’s also a safe scary, so you know that whatever happens you’re going to be ok. It’s not like crossing the road blindfolded.

Well at the moment I don’t look that far ahead and remind myself it is just ‘play’. If I did I would lose a lot and I doubt it would all appear as ‘real’ as it really is for me at the time. When I tremble, cry before punishment, scratch my skin and wrangle with my hands so hard they are marked when I am waiting for punishment , it is all what I am really going through. These things have actually happened so I am not going to pretend I am a great actress. The difference is that now I know how to make it happen in the same way if the other person isn’t able to bring that out of me.

But I have never used a safeword if that what you mean.

Ok. Coming down from the high, is that the subdrop? How long does it take and how does it feel?

That depends on who, what, when and how.. OMG hard to quantify. In my most serious moments, I have been found outside the room crying, sometimes in a chair or wherever I may fall, often on the floor in a heap and being inconsolable. That has scared people who I have worked/played with who of course genuinely care about me. I can’t help it though and hate myself sometimes for being too serious about it all but the cathartic release from it is something I need at that time so I have to have that space. When it happened to me in a serious acting role and I came out of a performance and had to say goodbye to a character I grew to love, I cried a lot the next day. I know now it isn’t about being spanked, or pain.

Do u like implements? What’s your favourite implement?

OTK hand spanking always, but only when its given ‘right’. The cane I love now as it tests me, but I hate it when it doesn’t feel right, it feels like I have been deprived. I’m not so into heavy straps, just things that sting more, and absolute not into deep bruising.

I know that you were once dommed by Leia Ann Woods, what was that like?

Lol yes Leia. The movie isn’t out yet and I’m not sure if/when it will be but it was something that surprised me. The gorgeous Leia, an absolute icon in the scene, taking on a role I didn’t expect her to be in with me. As it happens, and I told her this at the time, she is an expert with a cane and one of the best. I was soooo surprised but that is the benefit of good training, I think, and also she has the advantage of being a naturally brilliant actress.

Generally do u prefer men or women to domme you?

Men or women? Well, I loved watching Miss Brown in the Red Stripe videos and she is someone I would love to have worked with because she has what it takes to get me in the moment I think. Lucy McLean was fantastic too and as she spoke to me and told me she was ‘telling my parents’. I was sooo in the moment. She also knew what and how to do it all. I can mention three other brilliant women I’ve been dommed by who have totally done it for me in terms of finding my headspace. Sorry I’m rambling but I think as long at there is authority, control and getting me to know my place with them then I can be there with both….fence sitting I know but hey!!

Is spanking a sexual thing for you?

Easy to answer. Erotic, but the level of that is based on the other person, and sensuous. Sexual? If that means do I want to have sex with the person afterwards then I’d have to say “No”. The sexual bit comes later when I’m thinking about it, nursing a sore bottom or sent to my room I clearly separate spanking and sex but that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy it.

So, you get sent to your room, think about it and get turned on, then you want to maybe have sex with your partner (not necessarily the person who spanked you)?

Well, nothing is in any particular order lol and I can’t say that I always feel sexy after every spanking but if I do I can safely say I would only want to have sex with my serious and lovely boyfriend Definitely not on camera though in a movie!

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Kate James

Spank Place — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 17:03:06 +0000

Kate James (also previously called Katie Rose) is a lovely, cute, blonde spanking model from the east coast of the US with a big, plump bottom. Katie not only loves to be spanked but she is very creative and descriptive about spanking in the stories and articles on her Spanking Kate James blog. Here’s what we asked Kate…

Were you spanked growing up?

- Not really, my mom was more of a yeller. I got the occassional smack but nothing formal or elaborate. I knew I was into spanking from a really young age though, and had daydreams and ‘fantasies’ (if they can even be called that at such an age) from the age of 6 on, that I didn’t understand fully.

How does being spanked in scenes now make you feel?

- In videos or in my personal life? In videos is more fun, no matter the scene, and all for play and games. In my personal life the spanking can often take all sorts of tones and directions and can be deeply personal. Primarily I seek out spanking interactions that make me feel safe, vulnerable and secure, grounded, and cared for. I tend to feel very content after I get spanked – no matter the reason. I feel more centered than I did before the spanking.

Which other spanking model do you admire?

- There are a few that I admire for different reasons. First of all, Amber Wells (aka Pixie) for her ambition, acting abilities, and personality. She’s such a sweet person and really good at what she does. She just seems so very relate-able which is very important to me within TTWD.

When did you first meet/work with Clare Fonda?

- Gosh, I first emailed her sometime in May or June of 2007 (I was 18) and we corresponded all summer until I made my second trek to California and got the chance to shoot with her (and others). My first time meeting her was great. We went out for lunch and then shot all afternoon. She then gave me and a friend the first viewing of the new EE film (I think it was 2…). It just rocked and was so funny!

Anyone you haven’t worked with but would like to?

- Well, company wise, I’d love to someday work with both Punished Brats and Shadow Lane. As far as other ‘actors’ go, within the spanking community I would love to work with Tom Byron, Keith Jones, and Rich Windsor. As far as mainstream people go – Mark Harmon (Leroy Jethro Gibbs on NCIS!), George Clooney, and LL Cool J (only, as Sam Hanna on NCIS: LA)

Which aspect of spanking are you most into?

- The ritual, and the feeling. The small details within the ritual are important to me: who pulls down the panties, the positioning, the firm grip around my waist, etc. And the spanking itself, being hard and firm, unrelenting, and yet all at the same time very caring and loving.

What do you dislike about spanking? / Which situations would make you request a lighter spanking? / Do people spank you too hard or too lightly?

- Dislike? Hm. I’d have to say I dislike being spanked very low on my bottom. I don’t mind terribly the undercurve, but the low sit spots and upper thighs bothers me a lot. I have a rather large bum, there’s plenty of it to spank. The only thing that would make me ask for something specific that would be lighter would be if I had a doctors appointment or hands on class (I am a massage therapy student) and I’d have to show the sides of my bottom/thighs for a classmate to practice on me. Most of the people I play with spank me just how I like – hard and firm – but I’ve played with people who were just too light of players for me. I’ve rarely met someone who spanked too hard, but in those rare cases, I’ve said something and the person built up to a harder spanking for me.

How would the perfect spanking go for you?

A perfect spanking is hard to describe. It would be paternal and caring, authoritative and strict, safe and secure, while allowing me to feel open and raw, maybe even exposed (although not physically). It would be OTK and in the comfort of my home, and I’d have one of my stuffed animals nearby

Favorite / least favorite implement?

- Favorite is by FAR a leather strap or a belt. I find leather to be delicious, especially when applied firmly to my bum! My least favorite are hairbrushes or wooden spoons. Hard limit ones are anything with holes in it (leather or wood), and plastic/lexan. I only like all natural stuff (wood, leather, and rattan!)

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Keagen

Spank Place — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 09:59:04 +0000

You may have seen Keagen online at Real Spankings, Girl’s Boarding School and Dallas Spanks Hard. So, already from her portfolio of spanking work we can tell that this young lady can take a very hard punishment. She also describes her thoughts about her spanking life beautifully in discussions and stories on her blog.

When did you get into spanking? How did it happen?

I have been into spanking for as long as I could remember, but I discovered the adult spanking world my senior year of high school. I wrote a paper on corporal punishment, and that opened the doors to the world I now thrive in. . . .

I’ve just been reading your “Life Isn’t Fair” story and “What Was I Thinking?” post on Keagen’s Spanking Memoir. I liked them a lot! Your writing style is very enjoyable. It sounds like you want/need to be controlled but you hate it when it is actually happening, it sounds like a huge adrenaline rush with the thoughts flying around in your head as you realize you’re in for a spanking. It literally sounds like a rollercoaster that is terrifying but the relief is so great. How do you feel after a spanking?

You have described it perfectly. . . . . it is a roller coaster of emotion and feelings. After a spanking, I feel spent. I feel relaxed, loved, cared for, and forgiven. The pain is often mind-blowing, and the sense of being out of control overwhelming, but it is a very safe feeling over all. My favorite part is when it’s over! That way, I have nothing left to dread, and I can relax in his arms, knowing my slate is clean. . . .

What kind of spankee are you?

I don’t exactly understand the question, but I’ll answer what I assume it to be. I am a spriteful spankee. I am not completely submissive, across the board, although there is one man, and one man only, that I give my submission to. He has my complete submission. Overall, though, I am not submissive. . . . . . I am vocal, but I’m not a fighter, usually. As long as my sense of control is firmly in place, I don’t fight. I never truly mean to fight the spanker. . . . simply the out-of-control feeling.

What would be a perfect spanking? What makes it perfect?

A perfect spanking would be one that very much so reminds me who is in control, and who I belong to, yet one that is not mind-blowingly painful, as most of his spankings are. A perfect spanking would be one in which I was able to fully give control without it needing to be wrenched from my grasp, and without a battle. The simple sense of submission, and safety, without extreme pain, would be what made it perfect. . . . .

What is the most dreaded implement in your implement bag?

Oh, the rubber strap, for sure. This thing is beyond demonic. . . . . .It’s pain that is so painful, it doesn’t fully register because the brain goes into a “panic” mode. The focus is no longer on the spanking, or the implement, or the lecture. . . . only on escape. . . . . It’s thick, heavy, and one that can have me so apprehensive I’m nauseous and sick. The instant I see it, my brain clicks off, and goes into a different mode in order to deal.

Do you enjoy restraints? Do you like BDSM?

NO. Restraints and I are NOT friends, in any way.

Whats your favorite spanking fantasy?

I don’t enjoy role-play, nor fantasy, really. My spanker and I once verbally talked through a scene that had an absolutely magical feeling to it. . . . . a spanking down at the ocean during a sun-set. That’s something I would love to experience in RL.

What does the future hold for Keagen?

School, school, and more school. . . .oh, and a few spankings. . . . . Plenty of time with friends and family . . . . . . . .further exploration and growth on the path of submission. . . . . .

Read more about Keagen’s spankings at Keagen’s Spanking Memoir

Masie Dee

Spank Place — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 12:37:21 +0000

Masie Dee is a lovely and very hard-working English model who works in Spanking and also other forms of pornography. I met up with Masie for a glamour photoshoot in April 2009, we did a short interview afterwards about Spanking. It’s a fun interview and Masie was grinning for the whole time. Here’s what we discussed…

Were you spanked growing up?

I was not spanked growing up. I was too easily scared, I think. All he had to do was take his slipper off and that was it [I’d be gone] up the stairs. [makes the sound of doors closing behind her]

I remember we came back from a family holiday in the States one summer. I would have been 15, I think. Everyone else was jetlagged and I was bouncing about all over the place so I [went out] and got home at half past six, something unruly like that. And my friend was with with me and my Dad was very very grumpy, I had my rollerblades on and he threatened to hit me so I went flying into the house and fell down the stairs, hitting my head on the way down. After that my Dad got the reputation of being a child beater.. but he never touched me. Hehehe.

What some parents might have done is follow you up the stair with the slipper and open the door and give you a damn good hiding. Why do you think they didn’t do that?

I’ve got two answers for that. The first one is that we’re middle class and from Cheshire, and it’s just not done.

The real reason is that we didn’t need it. The thought of upsetting our parents was just mortifying. Which is really really wet when you think about it, but it shows that the system works, I suppose. The threat was enough.

It’s weird, for me spanking is very much.. there are two things.. there is sexual spanking, which is what I mean when saying the word “spanking” and I like to keep that very separate from the real world because if it was all mingled in all sorts of worry would happen in my head.

On the other hand you’ve got the fair discipline of children. Obviously I wasn’t beaten to death with the slipper, but a slap on the hand, a clip round the ear. Maybe it’s because I like horses but I think that if you don’t give a short, sharp shock at the beginning for minor offences then [horses/children] don’t build up an immunity so that when they actually do something really awful you don’t have to break their necks to punish them.

Children should be scared of you. That’s what they’re there for. In a nice way.

Are you submissive?

I’m definitely a submissive person! But, I’m a bratty submissive person which is possibly the most fun you can have in the bedroom. I like to be told what to do but I like to be made to do it, rather than just giving in, you don’t wanna make life easy!

So how would that work? Would you play out those roles all the time?

We’d be in Tesco’s or somewhere looking at apple pies and I’d pick up one, then he’d say “You fucking stupid bitch, what you doing?” and he’d get a different one out. I’d be left there in a puddle of orgasms saying “Oh, fucking hell, I’ve just been put in my place!” [happy face]

We did go down the path of doing it a little too much and then you’re just in a weird relationship where your partner’s a cunt. But, in small doses in jest but in serious jest it’s certainly the way forwards.

Lets talk about some of the spanking scenes you’ve done so far…

Although I enjoy being spanked some of the companies these days want girls who are professional spanking models who can go right up to full cane work.. and I’m only little. But the stuff I have done I’ve absolutely loved, especially the schoolgirl work, because that’s where everyone’s raw, basic fantasy begins. I like the idea of corruption I think.

My ideal spanking situation would be being spanked for something, a genuine something, and then being taken advantage of. For me that’s whats behind the spanking thrills. It’s not the discipline per se, it’s that someone has my pants off and is that close to me and are in a position of authority where they shouldn’t, the whole situation is wrong. I think in general that’s what turns me on. If it’s wrong, depraved and shouldn’t be happening then the chances are I’m in the background going “oooh, fucking hell” only probably not quite so posh accent, it’s more like [panting heavily with hand on her chest] hehehe

So, you might be in a girls school in the school hall being caned by a mistress. Naked over the horse when a male teacher walks by and…

It would be rude not to really. Actually, without trying to offend the whole nation, my ideal fantasy would be being done by a vicar at a catholic school. Spanked by the nuns and cleansed by the vicar, or priest. It’s not a religious thing, it’s just that it’s so wrong. That’s the wrongest figure of authority I can think of, which also makes it the sexiest. He’s got to be old aswell, not 100 years old, he has to have the energy to do it. Nicely horrific to look at.

So, I suppose he would do the boys in the morning and then you in the afternoon…?

Well, actually the full fantasy would be that I’ve been bad. I’ve been caught by the nun touching myself, having impure thoughts. The nun takes me straight up to the vicar then spanks me in front of the vicar. Then she leaves, and I’m held down by these two other nuns, secret SAS nuns and he teaches me, he gives me God’s will as it were. If I want to have dirty thoughts, I can be cleansed. And I hate it. That’s got to be it aswell. That’s why spanking is so good because you’re not supposed to enjoy it.

Like while having a bit of rough sex and having someone spank you, you go “grrr yeah” and that’s good because you get a little adrenaline rush. But, a full spanking should be something that you hate.

Do you prefer to be spanked by a man or a woman?

You know it’s funny. I’m pretty much as straight as they come. Straight straight straight. I like cock. I understand cock. Cock does everything for me. And I like saying it because it has a nice sound to it. But, when it comes to spanking it doesn’t matter. I think it’s the story behind it.

It’s like when I’m watching pornography at home I don’t like watching two girls at it, it’s not that they’re not very good, they’re always fab, it’s just that it doesn’t do anything sexually for me. Watching a woman being spanked by another woman, regardless of the setup is still sexy to me. I can get off on that quite happily.

Maybe spanking is something that can breach the gap or get you on to the girls.

Spankings are all about the sub. So when you’re being spanked it’s all about you…

Spanking is the ultimate sub work you can do. I think that’s where it stems from. Being a submissive woman, and most woman are submissive, simply because evolution made us that way. No offense to scary body builders or anything, and you look good, but men are bigger than us. Thousands of years of evolution tells us that men are bigger than us. Although nowadays they’re not, they tend to be lanky men in suits. It’s nice to get back to just deep carnal urges. And if you think about it logically about accessing the part of your brain that just primal and just on the basis on man big, woman little you’re possibly going to experience things that you can’t experience when you’re heads switched on in 2009 mode. You’re just being taken. And I like being submissive, like being dominated. Someone’s using force against you. Essentially being laid over someone’s knee and spanked which is always sexier than doing it over a table, I’ve no idea why but for me just for me its feeling them tense before they hit you. I think that’s possibly it, it’s that physical connection maybe.

It’s really weird though. When you’re being spanked or doing spanking films, you end up over someone’s knee and you never know how you got there, unless it’s a really low budget movie and you’re told to lie down and you do it. You’re up one minute having a row with someone being bratty as you’re supposed to. Next minute your whole world is upside down and your pants are missing and someone’s beating the crap out of you. And it’s incredible, it completely submitting yourself, allowing this to happen, but also part of your brain acknowledging that it’s gonna happen anyway because he’s bigger than you and he’s done it before. You don’t know how you ended up down there. Granted you could bite him and that’s gonna ruin the whole scene, so you don’t, so you do have that element of control over it, but equally you don’t because he’s in control of you and what he’s doing is having a direct effect on you, both by making your arse red and purple on the one hand and making you all wet and tingly and girly on the other.

I should write a book shouldn’t I?

Do you enjoy the force aswell as being dominated?

Definitely, the sensation of spanking, when done correctly, is very sexual. Sometimes it just hurts. But when you’re with someone who tunes in… The closest thing I can describe it to someone who hasn’t been spanked is when you have pins and needles, a dead leg, and someone taps it at the bottom and the pain shoots up and it almost washes over the whole of your leg. Or when you’re having an orgasm and it’s a real good ‘un it goes right the way through your whole body, that’s what being spanked is like.

You know when someone whispers in your ear and you feel the sensation here [rubs her tummy] and it’s almost like “uhh” because everything’s connected, it’s like that, if it wasn’t for the spanking I don’t think I’d get as wet because the sensation of that enlivens something over here. They’re very connected.

I’m gonna have to go home and have some sex in a minute.

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Sample of Masie Dee getting spanked