Sarah Gregory has burst onto the spanking scene in recent years. As she explains, Sarah had been fascinated by spanking for most of her life but her first ever spanking was on film. Now she has been spanked many times for websites and in her personal life, and her own website has taken off too. As you’ll read in this interview Sarah is a very talented switch as well as being very sexy. Plenty more of her thoughts regarding spanking can be found at her spanking blog.
We caught up with Sarah Gregory in September 2010…
I was sorry to hear that you were in hospital recently. Are you ok now? How long before you get your next spanking?
I am ok now thanks. I had a hernia repair surgery for what looked like a congenital femoral hernia. It was rather serious though, more than first expected to be. Luckily I have a great family when it comes to health issues. They were there to take care of me in my first week and a half of recovery.
As far as spanking…. I have already received my next spankings…….hehe. This booty could not wait. I probably pushed it a bit too soon, but being at a spanking party two weeks after surgery was like putting candy in front of a child and telling them not to touch it.
Were you spanked growing up?
No I was never spanked growing up. My mother, being a social worked doesn’t believe in spanking or any kind of physical punishment. She was all about positive reinforcement through charts and stickers and rewards. My father I think went along with her, though threatened once from him, he never went through with it. I think the threat in itself worked enough….
When did you first realise you might like spanking?
Hmmmmm, I can’t exactly pin down an exact age, but I am sure it is around 5 or 6 years of age, when I was in Kindergarten. That is when I had my first fantasy of a teacher spanking me and I was hooked on this idea. I was determined at that point to watch it in as many mainstream movies as I could, look it up in the dictionary, and play school with my friends to try to get them to spank me. The idea of spanking was so interesting to me, but at the same time I felt like there was something “wrong” with me for thinking these thoughts, so I hid them from everyone and was quite embarrassed at the mention of spanking around me.
How was your very first spanking?
My very first spanking was not something that I had expected. Let’s just say it was not at all what I had hoped for and longed for. I think this had to do with the fact that my first time getting a real spanking, as in hard, was in a Punished Brats video where Veronica Bound spanked me. Based on this experience, I got labelled as having a low tolerance…well it was my first damn time getting spanked, of course I would need to work up a tolerance over time, which I know realize. I currently have a medium to high tolerance and can gradually keep taking more and more. I surprise myself sometimes with what I take.
Deep down, I really consider my first spanking experience off camera to be more of what I had in mind and expected. This was with Stephanie Locke at the first Shadow Lane party I attended in 2008. I wrote in detail about it in this blog posting that I think everyone should read.
Some people say they like the pain, other people don’t like the pain but like the feeling of being submissive and being controlled by the other person. What do you like about being spanked?
Well, I am definitely not a submissive. I like to call myself a brat or bottom. I don’t like the pain from the actual spanking at all. It is more emotional for me. As Mike Billa once said, “Spanking is 80% emotion and 20% pain.” That will stick with me forever.
I like best when I am spanked by a mother or father figure because it gives me the sense of “being taken care of and loved” If someone takes the time to spank me for something they see is important, or even something they know will help relax me in times of stress, it shows that they care for me in a way that I have felt lacking other place in my life.
I also like being spanked by a woman whom I am sexually attracted to as foreplay for sex. I love role-play and sensual spanking with more feeling and rubbing as well as spanking. I like this kind of spanking because it turns me on and makes me again feel loved and like the woman wants me and therefore, I want to please her knowing that she is in control and can control my sexual arousal. There is just something so hot about this whole concept of spanking in sex and I hope to continue exploring this in future sexual and romantic relationships.
I hear you’re a spokeswoman for a paddle manufacturer. Do you like implements? What makes a good paddle?
Yes, I am a spokesperson for PM ProductX, formerly Paddle Master Pro with my friend Kat. St. James. I love of course getting my name and website out there to as many people as possible and being a spokesperson for a paddle company helps with marketing for me and for them. I like PMX because their paddles come in many colors and styles. I think variety is good when owning paddles. Because I make my own videos for my site, I like to use different implements in each scene. Being a girl, I also love brightly colored things and being able to have paddles like this rocks. I also like a paddle that is lighter and stingy vs. heavy and thuddy. I want to feel it, and hear it, but I don’t want a mark there a week later. I am also a huge fan of leather. I have a bunch of leather products from Ian at the London Tanners and Cane-iac. I have done work on the Cane-iac website as well in the past.
What with your blog and your website you must be very busy. Do you find time to get spanked off-camera any more?
No not really, which makes me kinda sad. I don’t have anyone local to do this with. However, I have a new good friend, Paul “Tubaman” Rogers, who has been kinda taking care of me and there for me lately. We have become close in the scene and attend most parties together now. He has topped me on my website and will be doing quite a bit more. I sort of see him as a daddy figure. Weird as it may sounds since I used to not get spanked by men, but he is great and there for me emotionally and for spanking me. When he comes to visit me and me him, I do get to do a lot of off camera spanking, but this is only maybe every other month or so.
How is your website doing?
My website is doing pretty good for being so new, better than I thought. It has been so fun doing all my shooting, editing, and all the work myself…yes hard work…but work I find fulfilling and enjoy. I can’t see myself doing anything else at this point. Also, working behind the scenes more gives me a whole new respect for what all the other companies do whom I have worked for as just the talent. What the viewer sees as the final project has had so much time, money, and energy that have gone into it on all levels.
I like the scenes where you’re with another sexy lady and one or both of you switch. You seem to relish taking charge and topping in a scene? Do you enjoy it?
Yes, I do love taking charge in a scene with a young lady. It gives me a chance to do for others what I like done with me. I feel as a mentor in a way to these newer girls getting into the business and it is fulfilling knowing I am guiding them and helping them and through spanking them, I believe it helps them get farther in their careers, I know it did for me, the more people I had to spank me, the farther I got and more confident I got. Plus, being on the bottom of so many talented tops over the years has taught me how to be a good top. It is my belief that every good top has been on the bottom at some point. And I believe that because I know what a bottom wants and craves, I can give them this as one who has been in their shoes. I look forward to being able to keep developing my topping side. I will always be a true bottom at heart, so don’t you worry, but that doesn’t mean I won’t top as well and enjoy it.
What do you like doing when you’re not involved with spanking?
I do so much when I am not involved with spanking. I take part in many community theatre productions. I usually am in two every fall and try to do one in the spring providing I have time between all the spanking work. But, my main two I do are in the fall from September through January, so my spanking and modelling work gets limited around rehearsal schedules during these months. I also take private voice lessons, acting lessons, and sing in a Jewish Choir. I recently adopted a one-year-old puppy who is my pride and joy. I love him and spend a lot of time with him, taking him on walks, runs, and just playing in the apartment. I have put the dating thing on hold for now as I have had so much trouble with it, that when I am ready to meet that special someone, I am hoping it just happens. I need to stop trying to hard I realized. As lonely as it gets, I do have a lot to keep me busy. I have a great vanilla roommate and we go out dancing, watch movies, and just have fun hanging out. I also have a few other local vanilla friends, all of whom know what I do and respect my work, but I can have vanilla fun with them too. I love amusement parks, going swimming, and to the beach in the summer.
From reading about your adventures on your blog it sounds like you get to travel the world and meet lots of interesting people. I’m sure a lot of people would LOVE to swap places with you… if you were to swap your lifestyle for another, what would you do?
I think that if I were to swap my spanking life style and work with another form of work and lifestyle, I would love to live in Hollywood and be involved with mainstream acting and movies. I would love to do commercials, be in real movies, and hopefully make it big in that world.
If not to Hollywood, then maybe to New York City to attempt being a Broadway star, living in a cute Manhattan apartment with other theatre geeks and working the subway, shopping in the city, and going to some cool lesbian bars at night when not in shows.
What does the future hold for Sarah Gregory?
Good question!….I hope to keep building my website with lots of new and fun content. I want to add some more disciplinary type videos as well as get a little more erotic. I want a huge variety of a lot of different types of spanking videos that all interest me in different ways. I want to get to as many spanking parties as possible and just go to the top until I can’t climb anymore. I want to not have to work at the strip club anymore and be bringing in enough income through spanking. I have just started booking a few private spanking session as I have a link for this on my website. I hope to build my clients up on this and book more and more sessions. I have so much fun with them.
As far as vanilla work, I plan to continue with the Community Theater, voice, and acting lessons. I also plan to look into grad school within the next 4 years or so I am thinking of that. I want a degree to fall back on, and just having my B.A. is not enough these days. I also plan to take up my vanilla photography and try to sell some of my work on a vanilla website. Lots of ideas going around in my head. But some of the money I make off the website, I would like to save for Grad School. That was a main idea I had before even going into this as a full time job.
For more from Sarah Gregory check out her websites…