Sophia Locke is a lifestyle submissive who has recently burst onto the internet. She may be new but you may well have seen her at parties and she has already worked with the likes of Ron Jeremy and Clare Fonda. While she may look different in every movie, one thing you’ll notice is that Sophia loves her wigs and can always be seen wearing one. Sophia is an intoxicating mix of BDSM, spanking and sex, she says that among the craziest things she’s ever done are having sex in public on a ferris wheel and in a restaurant, and a 7 Brazilian guy gang bang. You can find out more and catch all the latest news at Sophia Locke’s official website.
Sophia was kind enough to speak to us in June 2011…
You were saying on your tumblr that you’ve had the fantasy of being captured since you were much younger. Can you describe what it is you like about being tied up?
That fantasy has been with me for as long as I can remember. As a little girl, I didn’t understand why I felt so strange every time a girl was tied up in a movie. I was always disappointed when the hero saved her. What turns me on the most with these scenes is the loss of control, the fear, and the idea of being used. I wanted the bad guy to abuse the poor helpless girl. I wanted him to rip off her clothes and make her vulnerable and scared. I also love the erotic energy that comes from struggling against someone. Of course I would hope to lose!
Can you tell us about your relationship to spanking. We’ve seen the photos of your bruised bottom after the pirate outfit spanking. It sounds like you’re not a fan of the bruising but you like being spanked. Everyone likes different aspects of spanking, what is it you like?
Actually, I really enjoy getting marks. It’s a nice reminder of what I went through every time I sit down for a few days afterward. The bruising that I received during my “pirate spanking” was pretty extreme, though. The reason it may have seemed like I wasn’t happy with it was because I couldn’t work on webcam while I was that bruised. I don’t want to scare away the vanillas!
What would be a perfect spanking for Sophia Locke?
I’ve actually had my perfect spanking! It started out with me requesting a OTK spanking from my Owner. He put me over His knee on the couch and it started out nicely. I decided to be a little bratty by trying to run away. I really enjoy the takedown and capture sort of play. He chased me around the room, grabbing me by my hair and forcing me down on my knees for more spankings. Each hit was more severe! He would tell me after each time that He was finished – our game was over. He used that line to get close to me again so He could hold me down and spank me more. Each individual spanking was almost over my limit of how much pain my body could take. Being on the edge of that pain eventually brought me to such a deep subspace that I was able to truly believe that I would never get away, that it would never end. I had tears streaming down my face and onto the carpet. I had given up. I felt like He could do anything to me and I would just take it. He played with my pussy for a while, telling me that He would loan me out to friends, that I could never escape Him. I have never been so turned on in my life! Of course, in the very back of my mind I knew it was a game. I could have never gone that far mentally (and enjoyed it) with someone that I didn’t trust so deeply.
Sophia gets spanked by Snow Mercy at a convention
Does spanking turn you on?
Absolutely! Because bare handed spanking can get very intense for me physically, it helps turn me on when there are mental aspects to it as well. I like being lectured while being spanked. When I did my scenes with Snow Mercy, she did a lot of lecturing. I was pleasantly surprised with how turned on I was!
You’ve been collared by M for a couple of years after you read his personal and liked it. What was it he said in his ad that was so scary?
I could tell by His writing that He was clearly intelligent, and He didn’t beat around the bush. He wrote about how long He had been involved with the scene and what He expected from potential submissives. His profile was aggressive without being arrogant. There was a part in bold that said, “I am the One who will expose you/ I am the One who will hurt you/ I am the One who will humiliate you/ I am the One who will cherish you.” It ended with: “you will learn to fear Me/ you will learn to serve me/ you will learn to love Me/ you will yearn to hate me.” It still makes me wet every time I read it. He also had blogs written by past slaves and submissives. They were heavy with public humiliation and punishment scenes that scared the shit out of me. All of that combined was the reason I contacted Him.
Do you have a D/s 24/7 lifestyle relationship? I’ve never understood how 24/7 can work when there are times when you’re grocery shopping, for example. How does it work?
As close as we can get to 24/7, yes. To use your example, I always push the grocery cart or hold the baskets when we go to the store. I have to ask permission to get any type of food or drink. Sweets and alcohol are considered treats and are usually not allowed unless it’s a special occasion. He gives me His grocery card and credit card at checkout, so I always complete the transaction. I am not allowed on the furniture at home without His permission. I also sleep in a cage and wear a special sleeping collar to bed. What I was hoping to get out of the relationship was negotiated before I was collared, so it’s completely consensual. The control over my life is what works for me, sexually. There are certainly large aspects to our relationship that are vanilla, though. I feel comfortable being myself and speaking as I wish most of the time. The main difference in our lifestyle compared to others is that He has the final say in what I do. Of course, there are times when I don’t want to do what I’m told and I can be quite bratty. I’m outspoken and dominant in my life outside of this, so that interferes with our dynamic at times. It’s hard work and a lot of fun, like most relationships.
Sophia playing with her Owner
Do you switch?
I don’t. I’m not interested in dominating men or women. What seems silly to me is that I know how it feels to sexually enjoy pain, but I still feel bad inflicting it on fellow masochists. Weird, I know!
We’re very glad that you did, but why did you go from being kinky in private to being kinky in public on your website?
When I realized I wanted to try webcam and video work to make a living, it was a difficult decision to actually act on. A lot of my life revolves around my sexuality, so it seemed like a natural thing for me to do and something that I have no regrets doing. It’s scary knowing that your face is out there, though. The dichotomy between my vanilla work and lifestyle outside of work was eating away at me, so it was the right thing to do.
Your website seems to cover everything from sex to BDSM and everything inbetween. Which scenes do your members enjoy the most? Which are the most fun to shoot?
I’ve only shot a few videos. As far as webcam work goes, my guys (and gals!) like to personally have control over me. I give that to them in the best way I can while staying within my personal limits. It’s a really interactive way for all of us to get off!
I really liked the fun section, especially the Monday Night Fuckball. Do you actually play those games?
I do! I also play Jack Off Jenga, Battlestrip, Pussy Bingo, and a few others. They make my shows fun for me and the people watching. Monday Night Fuckball works like a football pool, but with more fun prizes than normal football pools.
Sophia Locke in a schoolgirl outfit gets spanked by Snow Mercy on Spanked Sweeties
I’ve not watched the movie yet but I gather you were spanked by Snow Mercy on Spanked Sweeties? How were the scenes?
I adore Snow! She’s such a professional and a really good person. It certainly doesn’t hurt that she’s very hot to scene with, too. The scenes were so much fun! I got very lucky, considering it was my very first spanking video shoot. Snow Mercy and I had played previously at a party, so I knew I was going to be comfortable with her. She’s very respectful of limits and really gets into it!
Is there a difference for you between being spanked by a man or a woman?
As I mentioned before, the lecturing during our scene really got me going. With women, spanking usually feels more like a fun and silly thing. It can get intense but I feel more playful about it than with men. When I am spanked by a man (especially my Owner), it feels more animalistic and raw. It’s a different headspace that I get into. I feel the same way about those differences when fucking men as opposed to women.
What spanking implements do you like and which do you not like?
I actually haven’t had an implement used on me that I haven’t at least grown to like eventually. Some of my favorites are paddles, canes, floggers, and most recently a dragon’s tail.
What does the future hold for Sophia Locke?
I would love to eventually run a production company with my Owner that specializes in videos featuring women in submissive roles that truly enjoy the mental and physical aspects of submission. Right now I’m really enjoying my webcam work and look forward to doing more videos. I feel blessed that I have the opportunity to be picky about the people I work with as well as the scenes I’m in. You’ll be seeing a lot more of me!
You can see and read plenty more about Sophia from the links below…
- Sophia Locke’s official website
- Sophia Locke on Tumblr
- Sophia Locke’s on Twitter
- Sophia Locke gets spanked by Snow Mercy in her pj’s