Pixie (also called Amber Pixie Wells) is one of the most-loved and well-known spanking models around today. The cute blonde is not only a spanking model, she is also webmaster, producer, director, photographer, and many other roles. The talented and lovely American from the east coast of the US tells us all about herself and thoughts on spanking on her blog aswell as starring in, designing and directing Punished Brats. Pixie was kind enough to answer these questions in January 2010…
I’ve been reading your interview on spreview and you say there that you’ve always had a high pain threshold. Do you like being spanked very hard and having your limits tested?
It’s not so much that I want to constantly test my limits but that I want to be spanked hard enough that I do not in any way have to fake a reaction. I want to truly feel punished even if it’s within the context of a scene.
Also on the limits topic, everyone is different but I’ve heard a lot about subspace and how you may not be able to say stop whilst in the middle of a spanking. How does this affect you and how do you stay in control of yourself during a scene?
For those very intense scenes where that might occur, I have to feel 110% safe and trusting of the person that is going to be giving the spanking to know to check in or be able to read my body language to know when enough is enough.
How do you like to be spanked in a scene? How is this different, if at all, from a private spanking with your husband?
I like my scenes to be disciplinary in nature. They can have an element of humor or be straight forward punishment for a misdeed, but I love the discipline aspect as opposed to moaning in pleasure sexual spankings. The spankings I receive from my husband cover a wider range. Many times he’ll give me a few swats just for fun or mock discipline (a spanking for a silly excuse), sometimes full, hard punishment sessions when I need them, and on occasion more playful spankings that lead to romantic activity. That sort of spanking is reserved for my hubby only. 🙂
I’ve heard someone say that there is a skill to being a sub in a scene. Are you better in the scenes you’re in now than when you first started out? What changed?
I always strive to constantly improve in everything I do – from improving on camera performance to lifting heavier weights at the gym to growing a bigger garden. Never stop learning, never stop growing. So yes, I hope that I’ve improved since I first started.
What I think has changed most is my comfort level with the camera. I always knew that I had an ability to take a hard spanking, but I was very intimidated by having to speak on camera and react to the spankings. I was afraid I’d say something stupid of that my reactions would look awkward. Now, I really enjoy the opportunity to take on the role of a sassy brat or a ditzy cheerleader. I have far less of a problem speaking up and I enjoy getting to cry, yell, kick, and squirm through my spanking. I think it helps convey the intensity of what I’m feeling to the viewers better that way.
As a fan, it seems to me that a lot of the time female tops spank harder than male tops. It seems that the men are too respectful. Any truth to this? What makes a good top?
I haven’t found this to necessarily be the case. I have received and watched very hard spankings given by both male and female spankers.
For me, a good top is one that holds safety as his number one priority, respects limits, and is eager to find mutual interest within the scene so that both he and the bottom are happy and satisfied after the spanking.
Do you have a fav scene / type of scene on Punished Brats?
This may sound silly, but I really like getting to play the ditzy, naughty cheerleader. Perhaps this is because that is the total opposite of who I was in high school. I was the quiet, straight A, band geek, wallflower who would never cause trouble. I also love getting disciplined by a school authoritarian and it’s even better when I have another girl getting punished alongside me.
Which of the brats on Punished Brats are hot at the moment? Anyone to look out for in the future? As a producer/director what makes a good brat?
I’d say all of them are hot!! We are very fortunate to have had amazing girls and big fan favourites such as Lily Anna, Bronte, Mischa, Tina Tink, and Lilly Page come and work with us this past year and we look forward to having them back again throughout 2010. Of course we will also be introducing some fresh faces as well. We have a new brat Lorraine filming with us for the January shoot and a few more girls lined up for the spring.
We like the girls to be reactive and have a bit of sass in their character. We don’t want them to quietly submit to their punishment and then lie motionless throughout their spanking. We want a bit of fire in their personality as a fire is lit on their bottoms.
Your blog is amazing, I like the pretty photos and discussions/rants. Do you enjoy writing it?
I absolutely love writing for my blog! I’ve never been able to keep a journal or diary before, but the interactive nature of the blog thanks to all of the wonderful readers who provide feedback and comments motivates me to post faithfully. I greatly enjoy having a place to share my thoughts about spanking as well as my day-to-day life and vanilla pursuits and the opportunity to relate to others that may share similar interests. The sense of community is fantastic.
I must admit though that at times I can find blogging stressful. I fuss over what to post – am I posting enough photos? Too many? Will what I say be interpreted correctly or potentially be inflammatory? What topic can I visit that I haven’t already written about? The occasional panic of OMG, my next update is due and I am short on time and/or ideas. Yeah, I get a little stressed, but it’s certainly a labor of love and I only stress out because it’s something I’m passionate about.
You were saying in a rant that the sub shouldn’t be too eager to jump over the top’s lap. Let’s be clear that we only approve of consensual spankings. In terms of a spanking fantasy, is being forced to submit to a spanking against your will a fantasy that you’ve had?
In general, of course it’s more than fine for a sub to jump over a top’s lap. Within the context of consensual play, the sub wants to get spanked. But if you’re doing a role play or a scene in which the spanking is supposed to be punishment and it’s not desired, it seems odd to me to say “no, please don’t spank me” and then do an eager swan dive over the knee to get spanked.
My fantasies tend to run towards discipline, school discipline being a major favourite of mine. I’m not looking for something terrifying or torturous, but I do like a strict authoritative figure to order me into taking a spanking that I’ve earned but do not want.
There seems to be a few different kinds of subs, some like the physical feeling of being spanked, others like the “roleplay” (getting told off) part and others like the humiliation or the attention or the loss of control. What is it about spanking that you’re into? If you like the physical feeling do you like the pain as it is happening or the feeling afterwards?
I like the anticipation of a spanking. Not necessarily the telling off, but knowing that my fate is sealed and I’m about to be punished. I then hate the initial pain of the spanking, when the sting and burn is at its worst. My enjoyment of the experience reaches another peak about midway through when I am feeling each smack of the spanking, but the skin is warm and my adrenaline has kicked in so more of the “thud” feeling is registering. Towards the end of the spanking when I’m not able to take much more, it’s once again very unpleasant. When the spanking is all over, I do enjoy the feelings afterwards. I’m relaxed, totally spent, and I even enjoy the deep muscle soreness that may linger for a few days reminding me of the spanking I took.
See and read more of Pixie and her spankings at…
- Punished Brats – Pixie’s Spanking website
- Spanking Pixie – Pixie’s Blog
- An Interview with Pixie from 2006