Snow Mercy

Lana and Snow Mercy spank two naughty ladies in Exclusive Education 6

While readers of this website may only be aware of Snow Mercy from her internet spanking scenes, Snow Mercy’s blog tells us that she’s also “a professional dominant, fetish model, multimedia artist, radio personality, film & television actress, photographer, videographer, video editor, film director, scholar, humanitarian, and world traveler.” With naturally dark hair and porcelain skin it seems like Snow was born for the world of kink. Not only is she beautiful, tall and shapely but she is also very intelligent with a great sense of humour. Snow works as a dominant at The Dominion and has many interests outside of spanking, as we discovered. Snow Mercy was kind enough to answer our questions in June 2012…

I’ve read that you had an interest in BDSM from a young age. What came first for you, the spanking or the BDSM?

I was primarily into spanking and simple rope bondage as early as 4 or 5 years old.

Did you start off with one fetish and broaden out or did you try everything from the start?

I started with spanking and rope bondage, mixed with role play. Later I met someone who was skilled in many areas of BDSM, some of which I had no idea that existed, like mummification. That’s the time when I really dove into bdsm. He and I started going to local Hollywood BDSM clubs where I picked up more skills.

What was your first BDSM experience? Top or bottom?

Bottom for many, many years. It never occurred to me to be a top until I started working at The Dominion, L.A.’s longest running dungeon.

Is there any conflict between getting spanked and being a dominant?

Well, in the strict sense of BDSM, yes there is conflict. A domme is not someone who gets spanked. It’s a submissive role to be spanked.

Snow Mercy gave some classes at The Dominion's Third Annual Valentines Day Worshop

You are tall, shapely, beautiful and sophisticated. These matters always depend on the level of tolerance of the other person, but do you also bring the pain?

Thank you! You are very kind. I’m a sensual sadist. I am known to dish out pain when it is carefully negotiated in a safe, sane way. I’m very strong and can deliver quite a lot of impact.

There will be dominants who have different styles but generally, what makes a good domme?

This question, “What makes a good domme?” is often discussed and I hear a lot of opinions. I’ll attempt to give my take on this subject.

A “good domme” can be any gender, size, shape, age, and can come from any background. Anyone is eligible. It seems the single, unifying qualities I see in good dommes are confidence, self-control, responsibility, humility, and compassion.

Confidence is probably the most important quality I try to teach to people I mentor who wish to be dommes. It’s easier to be confident if the person understands how to use implements with skill, knows the limits of the environment/sub/self, and is open to the experience.

Self-control—some dommes lack it and this can lead to boundaries getting crossed, injuries, and feelings being hurt.

Responsibility for the safety of others, the relationships involved or evolving, play space, finances, environment, schedules, etc., make a domme into a good domme. There is always a time and place for everything. If a domme makes His/Her sub miss work because a scene was too demanding or has visible marks, or if a domme leaves behind a play space a mess isn’t being responsible.

Being able to admit to mistakes, being able to make compromises like, “No, you don’t have to call me Master in front of your grandma,” being able accept constructive criticism, and not boasting are very desirable traits in a good domme.

Compassion. If a domme lacks compassion…run away!

I often hear, “The best domes were the best subs,” but this isn’t entirely true. Some dommes I know and respect never played as a sub.

I could probably write a whole book on this subject, but I’ll end here.

Is spanking just a form of BDSM or do spanking people want different things to normal BDSMers?

I often find spankers/spankees will separate themselves from BDSM. It might be because BDSM involves so many forms of play that if a pure spanker includes this label, then it’s assumed the person is interested in more than spanking. However, I believe spanking is a form of BDSM. Specifically, it’s a form of impact play.

I’ve read that you met a dominatrix at a fetish club and decided to apply to The Dominion after plucking up courage. How did you get into being in front of the camera in spanking movies?

This is true. Before I ever considered doing spanking movies, I spent a lot of time doing fetish modeling. I also did a lot of acting here in Los Angeles. So the cross-over was natural after Dallas of asked me to star in a movie. I had gotten to know and trust Dallas, so I felt comfortable working with him on a movie. It seemed like a good way to branch out and reach an audience that shares my enthusiasm for spanking and make new friends. It worked!

How would you describe your relationship with spanking?

Happy and healthy!

Alanah Rae and Alicia Panettiere gang up on show Mercy with all three ladies in sexy nightgowns

What do you like about being spanked?

What I like depends on the person, situation, the relationship, my mood, etc. All of it interests me. Sometimes I want to send somehow back home with lasting memories, so I deliver an especially hard spanking. Sometimes I need a good release that only strict discipline mixed with pain can offer. It varies.

Does being spanked turn you on?

Yes, but shhh…don’t tell anyone. 😉

What would happen if your dominant self met your submissive/bottom self?

Oh, boy, that would be an epic moment. I’d make sure to have plenty of film to capture what unfolds. I can see it being rather intense…maybe some wrestling would be involved to overpower the submissive one…we can only dream.

Clare Fonda paddles Snow Mercy on the couch

Can you tell us a spanking fantasy that you might have at the moment.

Don’t you think Katy Perry deserves a good spanking on stage while wearing one of her silly outfits?

What implements do you like and which do you not like to use and receive?

My hands are my favorite spanking tool, followed by the strap, both as top and bottom. I don’t like using what we at The Dominion call the “lollipop” because it breaks skin so easily. We have a paddle used for ping pong that is very large thin plastic that I adore for both top and bottom play.

Anything spanking-related you won’t do?

I don’t like breaking skin.

What’s your most dreaded implement?

I HATE Dallas’ “pimp stick.” It’s evil.

Snow Mercy paddles Ten Amorette at the front of the class in Exclusive Education 6

I’ve heard you’ll be interviewing and spanking a new lady on Spanked Sweeties!! I like hearing what people have to say about spanking (obviously, lol) but I’m also looking forward to seeing more of you topping because a girl-girl scene with one beautiful lady topping another is just very sexy. Do you watch your scenes back? Do you like porn?

I’m happy to hear you are excited about my new interview on Spanked Sweeties. I don’t want to give anything away, but I interviewed Porcelain and I think you’ll be happy with it. It’s my first interview on the SS site as the one doing the interview. Be sure to watch it!

To tell you the truth, I don’t usually watch my own work, fetish and non-fetish. I am my own worst critic so I tend to not watch my own videos. I was there at the shoot so I know what happened, right? It’s nice to see how I look so that I can learn from it and make improvements, but I also don’t always have access to my work—many sites require passwords. There are a lot of videos I star in that I’ve never seen. I also don’t watch TV nor do I watch movies in general. I guess I’m a bit odd in this way.

Porn is great and I’ll watch it sometimes. However, I’m rather lucky and find myself in real-life situations that are on a porn-level. So I don’t find myself watching much porn lately. Tough life I have, right? I’ll sometimes watch rather exotic porn that I am too embarrassed to mention to spice things up. Some of my friends are porn stars so we’ll watch it more for a laugh to tease them…oh, it’s a fun life I have.

Your “About Me” on your blog there is a list of some of your interests. For those that don’t know, it’s a long list including radio, TV and charity work… and there’s also music! I love your new single “Dig Dig Dig (Gold Mine)”. You’re on your third album now, which is very impressive. Can you tell me about how you got into making music.

I’m was raised playing classical piano as a child and I am a flamenco dancer, which requires me to use my shoes and hands as percussion instruments. I’ve always been around musicians and have been in relationships with many professional musicians. It seems I’ve gravitated towards people in the music industry, but I never really considered myself a musician until recently. Last year I met legendary record producer Kim Fowley, who has worked and influenced some of the biggest names in music like KISS, Alice Cooper, Joan Jett (he discovered her), and so many others. (Google him for the long list of people he’s worked with.) He has dozens of gold and platinum records, and it’s his livelihood to record artists. So, in a way, I had no choice but to record with Kim. It’s what he does, and of course he’s going to produce albums using me as an artist.

Snow Mercy and Kim Fowley

I was just thinking whether being creative with fetish is the same as being creative with music. Does the music scratch a different itch?

Both take creativity and require me to be very emotive. People can relate to music in general, but not everyone relates to fetish. The majority of my music discusses fetish, like my songs “Dominatrix Doll Deluxe” and “Pleasure and Pain.” Both can be found on my first album called “Goddess of Love.” I sing what I know about and I try to make it fun, but it’s not the same as doing a scene.

I’ve just learnt that you have a PhD in Physics. Being a doctor of physics is just about the opposite of what you do now. Did you like the science?

I have a Ph.D. in biochemistry and molecular biology. It’s a single degree that encompasses several fields. Yes, it’s very different from being a pro domme. I like science and appreciate it, but right now I’m taking a break from it as a career. I definitely use the skills I acquired in school in my day-to-day life such as critical thinking skills. I’ll return to making a living in science when being an entertainer is no longer lucrative.

I’d noticed that one of your tattoos looks like some kind of atom or molecule. What is it please?

You are right, I actually have both tattoos. They’re my little secret, but anyone who does their research can decipher them.

On your fetlife… Do you have nice feet?

I have been told by many people that my feet are rather nice. I’ve even won the “Most Beautiful Feet” category at Foot Night International, which is an organization that hosts parties for foot fetishists. I spend a lot of time and care on my feet to keep them looking their best.

And, Latex, what’s good about it?

I feel like a giant doll when I wear latex because it’s so shiny, slick, and smooth. It’s like a second skin and shows off curves.

What does the future hold for Snow Mercy?

My life has been so unexpected that I honestly cannot predict where I will be in the future, but I can give a vague answer. I hope to continue bringing happiness and joy through my work, whatever that may be. I hope my future includes more artist projects, more traveling, humanitarian work, and lots of love. Of course, the future holds lots of spanking, but that goes without saying. =)

To read much more of Snow Mercy’s domination, spanking and fetish plus all her other work and interests go to Snow Mercy’s blog!


Erica Scott

Erica Scott

Sometimes when I’m thinking up some questions to ask for this website I don’t know much about them other than having seen them in their spanking scenes on the internet. From reading Erica Scott’s blog I feel like I almost know her already and I think she may be the only person I’ve interviewed so far with an autobiography “Late Bloomer.” As the title suggests, Erica came to spanking later in life but seems to have taken to it like a duck to water. Erica is a lovely tall, slim brunette whom you may have seen on websites such as Shadow Lane, Northern Spanking and Sarah Gregory Spanking where she plays on camera, and she also plays recreationally. I’m sure everything I have to ask will either be covered either on the blog or autobiography but hopefully it’ll be a starter pack for people who don’t know Erica Scott yet.

We were lucky enough to ask Erica some questions in November 2011..

The blurb to your book mentions the troubles you had to overcome before you got into spanking. Are you better now?

I am much better, thank you. The eating disorders have been well under control for several years now. As for depression, that will always be with me to some degree, but as I said in my book, my worst days now are still better than my best days back then. Fully accepting my kink and immersing myself in the spanking scene worked wonders for my self-confidence and esteem.

Did you always fantasize about spanking, or what was the spark that put it into your mind?

No spark that I can recall; it’s always been with me, even when I was a small child and had no idea what I was feeling. You can add me to the endless list of people who, as children, looked up “spank” and all its synonyms in the dictionary, felt belly-flops when they saw a spanking scene on TV or in a movie, etc. I was kind of a strange child to begin with, so I thought this was just more of my weirdness.

I’ve just been reading some of your blog, you talk a lot about John and ST. Who are they please?

John is my boyfriend; we have been a couple since 1996, but we don’t live together. I met him when I placed a spanking personal ad in a local free paper (this was before I got on the Internet). This was shortly after I first “came out” as a spanko, so my relationship with him grew alongside my growth in the scene.

ST is my friend and play partner. He goes by the name “SpankoTango” on FetLife, which explains the initials. For a long time, I called him “New Guy,” but after a year, that seemed a little ridiculous. He comes over to my place every Monday and we have a spanking session, which I then blog about. Readers have come to enjoy that regular feature and I enjoy writing about our adventures.

Erica Scott spanked by Steve Fuller in Shadow Lane's The Spanking Professor

In a recent post you were talking about getting spanked by ST and you were saying how you were trying to be quiet because you have a new neighbour. How loud are you normally during a spanking? Does muffling your cries change the experience of a spanking?

I am normally quite loud, as my fellow party-goers will attest to! When being spanked at a party or a shoot, I will holler, sass, swear, make a lot of noise before I settle into the scene and quiet down a little. But in my apartment, I have to be careful. I figure my neighbors can hear the smacking sounds, but if they don’t hear any accompanying screams or protests, they can’t quite determine what’s going on. I must be doing something right, because I’ve been playing in this apartment for over 15 years and have never had a complaint.

Muffling my cries has a bit of an effect on the experience, because part of my mind always has to be aware of my sounds and reactions and I can’t fully lose myself in the scene. But I’ve been doing it for so long, it’s fairly automatic. That said, it’s really a treat when I get a chance to let go and be noisy!

Do you find that being spanked helps you deal with ordinary life better? If you go without being spanked for a period of time what happens?

It isn’t pretty, let me tell you. I am a very moody and mercurial person, and regular spanking helps me release stress and manage my wayward emotions. If I go without spanking for a while, not only do I miss the sensation, the special attention, etc., but I can feel angry, weepy, restless, depressed, prickly… sometimes all of those. Like I said, it isn’t pretty. That’s when my blog gets particularly snarky.

For me, spanking has the same effect as vigorous exercise; it releases endorphins along with the stress, and I feel much calmer and happier afterward. Unfortunately, the effects are short-lived and I always need more!

Erica Scott punished by The Villain at the Spanking Court

What is the “Spanking Court”?

Spanking Court is the brainchild of Alpine Sierra Studios, run by Cali and Heinz. They’ve been shooting for over a year and their premise is simple: People with a dispute, a claim, an issue that needs resolving, come to the Court and present their case to the judge. Topics addressed have included speeders, rude neighbors, perpetrators of malicious pranks, exam cheaters, and errant wives. The judge passes sentence (a number of strokes from 100-300 with the implement of his choosing), and the defendant is remanded to the bailiff (Dana Kane) and the court disciplinarian (The Villain) for the punishment. The sentencing room is formidable, with spanking benches and two walls filled with implements. The spankee has to count the strokes out loud.

I was lucky enough to shoot with them this year, a story arc with six scenes. My last scene was shot on November 5. Spanking Court has been headquartered in Hollywood, CA, but they will be relocating. I will miss them, but hope to be flown to their new location sometime next year for more. You couldn’t ask for a nicer, more fun group of people!

Can you tell me what is it you like about getting spanked?

In a word: everything. But I guess that’s a boring answer.

Physically, I love the sensation of the impact, the pain that blends seamlessly into pleasure. The feeling of his hands, his thighs under my belly, the sound of his voice. Physiologically, I love the endorphin surge and all those delicious feelings that ensue. Emotionally, so many things… the power exchange. The pretense of not wanting it when we both know I do. The game of it: the tease, the anticipation, the banter, the push and the pull, the struggle—all the while knowing that he will win (and because of that, of course, so will I).

It’s sexy, it’s naughty, it’s (somewhat) forbidden and it’s fun.

What makes a good spanker for you?

Powerful hands, dexterity with implements, a calm voice and demeanor, a strong presence that commands to be taken seriously. A man who knows the difference between assertion and aggression, confidence and arrogance, and who can read me and know when it’s time to push and when to back off a bit. Someone strict and firm but caring, who knows how to caress as well as chastise. He respects limits, but knows when he can challenge them a little.

But what takes him from good to excellent is a mutual attraction, an emotional connection, and trust.

Erica Scott and Sarah Gregory punished together with the ruler by Paul Rogers

Do you/would you switch?

I do not; it’s not in me. I have a toppy personality, but I don’t have the capacity to inflict pain, no matter how much the other person wants it. I tried many years ago with John (he is a switch). I got dressed up in black lingerie and heels, and he had me flicking him with a riding crop. What a joke that was; every time he flinched, I’d stop and blurt, “Oh, honey, are you OK?” Some top!

I topped once on video, very briefly, and I still can’t watch that scene. I will never do that again.

Some people say that going from bottom to switch is a natural (and somewhat inevitable) progression in the scene. Not for this girl.

What spanking implements do you like and which do you not like?

I’m more partial to leather than to wood. It’s hard to say which implements are my favorites, since there are so many sizes, shapes and materials and no two are quite alike. I do love a man’s belt; not just the feel of it, but the snapping sound, the ritual of his unbuckling it, yanking it from the loops and doubling it. Hairbrushes hurt like crazy, but they work well with OTK and their classic look in a spanking scene is undeniable. I like some thinner, lighter wooden paddles that pack a sting, but one of my hard limits is the thick, heavy “frat-style” paddles.

Generally, if it stings and snaps, I like it, but if it strikes with a dull thud and feels like I’m getting hit with a 2 x 4, I’ll pass on it.

Erica Scott lies over the bed next to some spanking implements during a private session with ST

What does the future hold for Erica Scott?

I have no video plans at this point. Every time I do a shoot, I think it may be my last, because I’m a lot older than most video bottoms and my “career” has been a bit of an anomaly. But then someone or another always comes along and yanks me out of retirement, so who knows? I absolutely adore shooting, so I hope that will continue.

I’m toying with the idea of collecting all my “Correspondence Hall of Shame” entries from over the years and creating a book out of them. And of course, lots more blogging and lots more spanking!

You can see and read much more about Erica Scott’s spankings at her blog: Erica Scott: Life, Love & Spanking and you can find a copy of Erica’s book here!


Sophia Locke

Sophia Locke

Sophia Locke is a lifestyle submissive who has recently burst onto the internet. She may be new but you may well have seen her at parties and she has already worked with the likes of Ron Jeremy and Clare Fonda. While she may look different in every movie, one thing you’ll notice is that Sophia loves her wigs and can always be seen wearing one. Sophia is an intoxicating mix of BDSM, spanking and sex, she says that among the craziest things she’s ever done are having sex in public on a ferris wheel and in a restaurant, and a 7 Brazilian guy gang bang. You can find out more and catch all the latest news at Sophia Locke’s official website.

Sophia was kind enough to speak to us in June 2011…

You were saying on your tumblr that you’ve had the fantasy of being captured since you were much younger. Can you describe what it is you like about being tied up?

That fantasy has been with me for as long as I can remember. As a little girl, I didn’t understand why I felt so strange every time a girl was tied up in a movie. I was always disappointed when the hero saved her. What turns me on the most with these scenes is the loss of control, the fear, and the idea of being used. I wanted the bad guy to abuse the poor helpless girl. I wanted him to rip off her clothes and make her vulnerable and scared. I also love the erotic energy that comes from struggling against someone. Of course I would hope to lose!

Can you tell us about your relationship to spanking. We’ve seen the photos of your bruised bottom after the pirate outfit spanking. It sounds like you’re not a fan of the bruising but you like being spanked. Everyone likes different aspects of spanking, what is it you like?

Actually, I really enjoy getting marks. It’s a nice reminder of what I went through every time I sit down for a few days afterward. The bruising that I received during my “pirate spanking” was pretty extreme, though. The reason it may have seemed like I wasn’t happy with it was because I couldn’t work on webcam while I was that bruised. I don’t want to scare away the vanillas!

What would be a perfect spanking for Sophia Locke?

I’ve actually had my perfect spanking! It started out with me requesting a OTK spanking from my Owner. He put me over His knee on the couch and it started out nicely. I decided to be a little bratty by trying to run away. I really enjoy the takedown and capture sort of play. He chased me around the room, grabbing me by my hair and forcing me down on my knees for more spankings. Each hit was more severe! He would tell me after each time that He was finished – our game was over. He used that line to get close to me again so He could hold me down and spank me more. Each individual spanking was almost over my limit of how much pain my body could take. Being on the edge of that pain eventually brought me to such a deep subspace that I was able to truly believe that I would never get away, that it would never end. I had tears streaming down my face and onto the carpet. I had given up. I felt like He could do anything to me and I would just take it. He played with my pussy for a while, telling me that He would loan me out to friends, that I could never escape Him. I have never been so turned on in my life! Of course, in the very back of my mind I knew it was a game. I could have never gone that far mentally (and enjoyed it) with someone that I didn’t trust so deeply.

Sophia gets spanked by Snow Mercy at a convention
Sophia gets spanked by Snow Mercy at a convention

Does spanking turn you on?

Absolutely! Because bare handed spanking can get very intense for me physically, it helps turn me on when there are mental aspects to it as well. I like being lectured while being spanked. When I did my scenes with Snow Mercy, she did a lot of lecturing. I was pleasantly surprised with how turned on I was!

You’ve been collared by M for a couple of years after you read his personal and liked it. What was it he said in his ad that was so scary?

I could tell by His writing that He was clearly intelligent, and He didn’t beat around the bush. He wrote about how long He had been involved with the scene and what He expected from potential submissives. His profile was aggressive without being arrogant. There was a part in bold that said, “I am the One who will expose you/ I am the One who will hurt you/ I am the One who will humiliate you/ I am the One who will cherish you.” It ended with: “you will learn to fear Me/ you will learn to serve me/ you will learn to love Me/ you will yearn to hate me.” It still makes me wet every time I read it. He also had blogs written by past slaves and submissives. They were heavy with public humiliation and punishment scenes that scared the shit out of me. All of that combined was the reason I contacted Him.

Do you have a D/s 24/7 lifestyle relationship? I’ve never understood how 24/7 can work when there are times when you’re grocery shopping, for example. How does it work?

As close as we can get to 24/7, yes. To use your example, I always push the grocery cart or hold the baskets when we go to the store. I have to ask permission to get any type of food or drink. Sweets and alcohol are considered treats and are usually not allowed unless it’s a special occasion. He gives me His grocery card and credit card at checkout, so I always complete the transaction. I am not allowed on the furniture at home without His permission. I also sleep in a cage and wear a special sleeping collar to bed. What I was hoping to get out of the relationship was negotiated before I was collared, so it’s completely consensual. The control over my life is what works for me, sexually. There are certainly large aspects to our relationship that are vanilla, though. I feel comfortable being myself and speaking as I wish most of the time. The main difference in our lifestyle compared to others is that He has the final say in what I do. Of course, there are times when I don’t want to do what I’m told and I can be quite bratty. I’m outspoken and dominant in my life outside of this, so that interferes with our dynamic at times. It’s hard work and a lot of fun, like most relationships.

Sophia playing with her Owner
Sophia playing with her Owner

Do you switch?

I don’t. I’m not interested in dominating men or women. What seems silly to me is that I know how it feels to sexually enjoy pain, but I still feel bad inflicting it on fellow masochists. Weird, I know!

We’re very glad that you did, but why did you go from being kinky in private to being kinky in public on your website?

When I realized I wanted to try webcam and video work to make a living, it was a difficult decision to actually act on. A lot of my life revolves around my sexuality, so it seemed like a natural thing for me to do and something that I have no regrets doing. It’s scary knowing that your face is out there, though. The dichotomy between my vanilla work and lifestyle outside of work was eating away at me, so it was the right thing to do.

Your website seems to cover everything from sex to BDSM and everything inbetween. Which scenes do your members enjoy the most? Which are the most fun to shoot?

I’ve only shot a few videos. As far as webcam work goes, my guys (and gals!) like to personally have control over me. I give that to them in the best way I can while staying within my personal limits. It’s a really interactive way for all of us to get off!

I really liked the fun section, especially the Monday Night Fuckball. Do you actually play those games?

I do! I also play Jack Off Jenga, Battlestrip, Pussy Bingo, and a few others. They make my shows fun for me and the people watching. Monday Night Fuckball works like a football pool, but with more fun prizes than normal football pools.

Sophia Locke gets spanked by Snow Mercy on Spanked Sweeties
Sophia Locke in a schoolgirl outfit gets spanked by Snow Mercy on Spanked Sweeties

I’ve not watched the movie yet but I gather you were spanked by Snow Mercy on Spanked Sweeties? How were the scenes?

I adore Snow! She’s such a professional and a really good person. It certainly doesn’t hurt that she’s very hot to scene with, too. The scenes were so much fun! I got very lucky, considering it was my very first spanking video shoot. Snow Mercy and I had played previously at a party, so I knew I was going to be comfortable with her. She’s very respectful of limits and really gets into it!

Is there a difference for you between being spanked by a man or a woman?

As I mentioned before, the lecturing during our scene really got me going. With women, spanking usually feels more like a fun and silly thing. It can get intense but I feel more playful about it than with men. When I am spanked by a man (especially my Owner), it feels more animalistic and raw. It’s a different headspace that I get into. I feel the same way about those differences when fucking men as opposed to women.

What spanking implements do you like and which do you not like?

I actually haven’t had an implement used on me that I haven’t at least grown to like eventually. Some of my favorites are paddles, canes, floggers, and most recently a dragon’s tail.

What does the future hold for Sophia Locke?

I would love to eventually run a production company with my Owner that specializes in videos featuring women in submissive roles that truly enjoy the mental and physical aspects of submission. Right now I’m really enjoying my webcam work and look forward to doing more videos. I feel blessed that I have the opportunity to be picky about the people I work with as well as the scenes I’m in. You’ll be seeing a lot more of me!

You can see and read plenty more about Sophia from the links below…



Ten gets her ass seen to at Everything Butt

Today we bring you Ten, a sexy, brunette lifestyler from New Jersey. At just 24 Ten has already had many experiences in the world of kink and she writes about them in her blog: The She-donist. If her scenes on the internet seem very hard and real, it means they probably are, and that’s how she likes it. The subheading of Ten’s blog is “Pursuing carnal pleasure, one kinky step at a time” so spanking and kink is definitely something that brings pleasure for her. Ten has been very busy over the past few years and you may have seen her in all kinds of kinky bondage and, of course, spanking scenes. Ten is very cute with a lovely bottom and as she says in her blog “[her] life is awesome”!

Ten was kind enough to answer these questions in February 2011…

First things first, we’re guessing that Ten was not the name you were born with. Choosing a stagename is hard, we’ve tried and failed. We like Ten, is there a story behind it?

I have a link to a big, long story here for fetlife users:

Short version:

I started out belonging to someone as “slave 10”. However, I realized as I started exploring the scene that I wasn’t a slave– I left that man and, since everyone knew me by the name, turned the number into a word. “Ten” became my name in “real life” as well as I became open about my kink. My roommates call me “Ten”, my friends call me “Ten”, even some people at the Vanilla job call me “Ten”.

Currently looking for a ‘last name’ to go with “Ten”. It means “Heaven” in Japanese, so maybe trying to find something that flows with that. Any suggestions?

Can you tell us about your relationship to spanking. When did your interest in it start?

I’ve always felt drawn to dominance and the thought of someone taking me over their knee. When I was a small child I was transfixed by scenes of Corporal Punishment in books & movies. I really didn’t understand what that feeling in my tummy as I imagined myself in that position was about until I was older. I was actually turned on at the idea of having a healthy dose of fear for a patriarchal man in my life.

How did you get to be a spanking model?

Luck… and a few friends who had been doing it recommended me for a few key sites.

Ten gets strapped by David Pearson on Punished Brats

For someone who hasn’t already watched one of your scenes can you describe what you are like in a scene.

I’ve been told I have a “titanium ass.” It can take a lot. It also allows me to be quite the brat. However, my demeanor is based on the “tone” of the site. I can be a good girl if need be 🙂

Does being spanked turn you on?

See above… but yes

We first saw you on a website. They do some pretty extreme-looking scenes. Do you like the harder/rougher side of fetish/sex?

I like being bound and “forced sex” scenes in addition to the spanking. I’m not a heavy masochist– a true spanko at heart but part of me likes to be “taken”.

Has “working” in the adult industry changed your relationship with sex/fetish?

Only in a positive, growth-inspiring way. I’ve accepted my body, my sexual proclivities, and have come out to embrace this side of me so many others feel the need to hide.

Ten gets her ass seen to at Everything Butt

The upside is obvious, but is there a downside to being a well-known spanking model?

Naw… I heal quick. The only downside is that many prospective play partners are too intimidated to ask me to play–or think I may not enjoy it since I’ve had other, more experienced partners.

What do you like about being spanked? What would be a perfect spanking for Ten?

The control, the discipline, and recently… the sensation. However the perfect spanking would be a “taking me in hand to give me what I’d been asking for”. Preferably if I stepped out of line, being taken over the knee and spanked through my intense struggling, holding me down and spanking me, in spite of my protests. My favorite part of the spanking is the releasing all control. If the spanking persists, my butt growing more and more sore and heated to a point where I finally give in and accept my punishment (probably the point where I’d let go and start crying)–that’s a kind of catharsis therapy rarely can give.

Can you tell us a spanking fantasy that you might have at the moment.

It generally involves me getting mouthy with a man I’m sexually attracted to. I brat, I toe the line, I’m assertive… but inside I hold a need to be put in my place and this guy does it. I eventually say that one thing that trips the boundary and he snatches me. I fight like a wildcat but he gets me over his knee and spares nothing while he goes to down on my backside. Then, he lifts my skirt and keeps going to down until I start to calm down and stop struggling. Tamed, he pulls me up for a deep passionate kiss (awwww) and… cue really corny romance novel ending.

What?! I didn’t say it had to be a good story, this is what I get OFF on! Most porn doesn’t have a good story, sheesh, don’t judge me!

Ten and Mary Jane get spanked by Alicia and Clare in Strict Cousin
Ten and Mary Jane get spanked by Alicia Panettiere and Clare Fonda in Strict Cousin at Girl Spanks Girl

What implements do you like and which do you not like?

I’m a big fan of the hand… and the very “Daddy-like” feel of a belt (especially when it swishes through the loops *sigh* isn’t that sound wonderful?) I’ve grown to discover that the experience I get in response #9 is more than likely created with a big paddle that spans both of my cheeks, swinging unrelentingly over and over again until I realize it’s not going to stop until the person spanking me stops.

Do you switch?

I top women mostly, but have been known to spank a few naughty men in my time!

What does the future hold for Ten?

A big damn question mark. Maybe a change of location/ career/ my own website even? Things aren’t slowing down, that’s for certain!

You can see and read much more from at Ten’s blog: The She-donist!

Ten also appears on the websites Girl Spanks Girl, Punished Brats and Spanked Callgirls!


Sarah Gregory

Sarah Gregory
Sarah looking adorable in bunches, and showing off her new shorter haircut

Sarah Gregory has burst onto the spanking scene in recent years. As she explains, Sarah had been fascinated by spanking for most of her life but her first ever spanking was on film. Now she has been spanked many times for websites and in her personal life, and her own website has taken off too. As you’ll read in this interview Sarah is a very talented switch as well as being very sexy. Plenty more of her thoughts regarding spanking can be found at her spanking blog.

We caught up with Sarah Gregory in September 2010…

I was sorry to hear that you were in hospital recently. Are you ok now? How long before you get your next spanking?

I am ok now thanks. I had a hernia repair surgery for what looked like a congenital femoral hernia. It was rather serious though, more than first expected to be. Luckily I have a great family when it comes to health issues. They were there to take care of me in my first week and a half of recovery.

As far as spanking…. I have already received my next spankings…….hehe. This booty could not wait. I probably pushed it a bit too soon, but being at a spanking party two weeks after surgery was like putting candy in front of a child and telling them not to touch it.

Were you spanked growing up?

No I was never spanked growing up. My mother, being a social worked doesn’t believe in spanking or any kind of physical punishment. She was all about positive reinforcement through charts and stickers and rewards. My father I think went along with her, though threatened once from him, he never went through with it. I think the threat in itself worked enough….

When did you first realise you might like spanking?

Hmmmmm, I can’t exactly pin down an exact age, but I am sure it is around 5 or 6 years of age, when I was in Kindergarten. That is when I had my first fantasy of a teacher spanking me and I was hooked on this idea. I was determined at that point to watch it in as many mainstream movies as I could, look it up in the dictionary, and play school with my friends to try to get them to spank me. The idea of spanking was so interesting to me, but at the same time I felt like there was something “wrong” with me for thinking these thoughts, so I hid them from everyone and was quite embarrassed at the mention of spanking around me.

How was your very first spanking?

My very first spanking was not something that I had expected. Let’s just say it was not at all what I had hoped for and longed for. I think this had to do with the fact that my first time getting a real spanking, as in hard, was in a Punished Brats video where Veronica Bound spanked me. Based on this experience, I got labelled as having a low tolerance…well it was my first damn time getting spanked, of course I would need to work up a tolerance over time, which I know realize. I currently have a medium to high tolerance and can gradually keep taking more and more. I surprise myself sometimes with what I take.

Deep down, I really consider my first spanking experience off camera to be more of what I had in mind and expected. This was with Stephanie Locke at the first Shadow Lane party I attended in 2008. I wrote in detail about it in this blog posting that I think everyone should read.

Some people say they like the pain, other people don’t like the pain but like the feeling of being submissive and being controlled by the other person. What do you like about being spanked?

Well, I am definitely not a submissive. I like to call myself a brat or bottom. I don’t like the pain from the actual spanking at all. It is more emotional for me. As Mike Billa once said, “Spanking is 80% emotion and 20% pain.” That will stick with me forever.

I like best when I am spanked by a mother or father figure because it gives me the sense of “being taken care of and loved” If someone takes the time to spank me for something they see is important, or even something they know will help relax me in times of stress, it shows that they care for me in a way that I have felt lacking other place in my life.

I also like being spanked by a woman whom I am sexually attracted to as foreplay for sex. I love role-play and sensual spanking with more feeling and rubbing as well as spanking. I like this kind of spanking because it turns me on and makes me again feel loved and like the woman wants me and therefore, I want to please her knowing that she is in control and can control my sexual arousal. There is just something so hot about this whole concept of spanking in sex and I hope to continue exploring this in future sexual and romantic relationships.

Krystal Star spanks Sarah Gregory OTK in her Spanked Stripper update
Krystal Star spanks Sarah Gregory OTK in her Spanked Stripper update

I hear you’re a spokeswoman for a paddle manufacturer. Do you like implements? What makes a good paddle?

Yes, I am a spokesperson for PM ProductX, formerly Paddle Master Pro with my friend Kat. St. James. I love of course getting my name and website out there to as many people as possible and being a spokesperson for a paddle company helps with marketing for me and for them. I like PMX because their paddles come in many colors and styles. I think variety is good when owning paddles. Because I make my own videos for my site, I like to use different implements in each scene. Being a girl, I also love brightly colored things and being able to have paddles like this rocks. I also like a paddle that is lighter and stingy vs. heavy and thuddy. I want to feel it, and hear it, but I don’t want a mark there a week later. I am also a huge fan of leather. I have a bunch of leather products from Ian at the London Tanners and Cane-iac. I have done work on the Cane-iac website as well in the past.

What with your blog and your website you must be very busy. Do you find time to get spanked off-camera any more?

No not really, which makes me kinda sad. I don’t have anyone local to do this with. However, I have a new good friend, Paul “Tubaman” Rogers, who has been kinda taking care of me and there for me lately. We have become close in the scene and attend most parties together now. He has topped me on my website and will be doing quite a bit more. I sort of see him as a daddy figure. Weird as it may sounds since I used to not get spanked by men, but he is great and there for me emotionally and for spanking me. When he comes to visit me and me him, I do get to do a lot of off camera spanking, but this is only maybe every other month or so.

How is your website doing?

My website is doing pretty good for being so new, better than I thought. It has been so fun doing all my shooting, editing, and all the work myself…yes hard work…but work I find fulfilling and enjoy. I can’t see myself doing anything else at this point. Also, working behind the scenes more gives me a whole new respect for what all the other companies do whom I have worked for as just the talent. What the viewer sees as the final project has had so much time, money, and energy that have gone into it on all levels.

I like the scenes where you’re with another sexy lady and one or both of you switch. You seem to relish taking charge and topping in a scene? Do you enjoy it?

Yes, I do love taking charge in a scene with a young lady. It gives me a chance to do for others what I like done with me. I feel as a mentor in a way to these newer girls getting into the business and it is fulfilling knowing I am guiding them and helping them and through spanking them, I believe it helps them get farther in their careers, I know it did for me, the more people I had to spank me, the farther I got and more confident I got. Plus, being on the bottom of so many talented tops over the years has taught me how to be a good top. It is my belief that every good top has been on the bottom at some point. And I believe that because I know what a bottom wants and craves, I can give them this as one who has been in their shoes. I look forward to being able to keep developing my topping side. I will always be a true bottom at heart, so don’t you worry, but that doesn’t mean I won’t top as well and enjoy it.

Sinn Sage gives Sarah Gregory a kinky nude lesbian spanking with her hand, belt and paddle
Sinn Sage gives Sarah Gregory a kinky nude lesbian spanking with her hand, belt and paddle

What do you like doing when you’re not involved with spanking?

I do so much when I am not involved with spanking. I take part in many community theatre productions. I usually am in two every fall and try to do one in the spring providing I have time between all the spanking work. But, my main two I do are in the fall from September through January, so my spanking and modelling work gets limited around rehearsal schedules during these months. I also take private voice lessons, acting lessons, and sing in a Jewish Choir. I recently adopted a one-year-old puppy who is my pride and joy. I love him and spend a lot of time with him, taking him on walks, runs, and just playing in the apartment. I have put the dating thing on hold for now as I have had so much trouble with it, that when I am ready to meet that special someone, I am hoping it just happens. I need to stop trying to hard I realized. As lonely as it gets, I do have a lot to keep me busy. I have a great vanilla roommate and we go out dancing, watch movies, and just have fun hanging out. I also have a few other local vanilla friends, all of whom know what I do and respect my work, but I can have vanilla fun with them too. I love amusement parks, going swimming, and to the beach in the summer.

From reading about your adventures on your blog it sounds like you get to travel the world and meet lots of interesting people. I’m sure a lot of people would LOVE to swap places with you… if you were to swap your lifestyle for another, what would you do?

I think that if I were to swap my spanking life style and work with another form of work and lifestyle, I would love to live in Hollywood and be involved with mainstream acting and movies. I would love to do commercials, be in real movies, and hopefully make it big in that world.

If not to Hollywood, then maybe to New York City to attempt being a Broadway star, living in a cute Manhattan apartment with other theatre geeks and working the subway, shopping in the city, and going to some cool lesbian bars at night when not in shows.

What does the future hold for Sarah Gregory?

Good question!….I hope to keep building my website with lots of new and fun content. I want to add some more disciplinary type videos as well as get a little more erotic. I want a huge variety of a lot of different types of spanking videos that all interest me in different ways. I want to get to as many spanking parties as possible and just go to the top until I can’t climb anymore. I want to not have to work at the strip club anymore and be bringing in enough income through spanking. I have just started booking a few private spanking session as I have a link for this on my website. I hope to build my clients up on this and book more and more sessions. I have so much fun with them.

As far as vanilla work, I plan to continue with the Community Theater, voice, and acting lessons. I also plan to look into grad school within the next 4 years or so I am thinking of that. I want a degree to fall back on, and just having my B.A. is not enough these days. I also plan to take up my vanilla photography and try to sell some of my work on a vanilla website. Lots of ideas going around in my head. But some of the money I make off the website, I would like to save for Grad School. That was a main idea I had before even going into this as a full time job.

For more from Sarah Gregory check out her websites…

Sarah Gregory Spanking


Alicia Panettiere

Alicia Panettiere presents her bottom during a spanking

The lovely Alicia Panettiere is a fairly new spanking model on the scene. Alicia is very much into spanking and gives private sessions as well as acting in spanking movies. Alicia is a beautiful lady from the Midwest who also models for glamour photography which shows an entirely new side to her. And if all that wasn’t enough Ms Panettiere is also a web designer!! You can already find many of Alicia’s spanking videos at her website & video store – and for more photos and discussions about spanking and related issues check out her blog –

We caughty up with Alicia in July 2010…

I’ve enjoyed reading your blog a lot. A recent article that I liked very much was about bratting, a lot of new bottoms could benefit from reading that post. It’s very well written indeed. Do you like bratting? Are you good at it?

Thank you! When I first came into the spanking scene as a bottom I would purposely do or say things to “get in trouble”, but it seemed that it was too forced. Honestly I am not and have never been any good at bratting in my opinion but I envy those who can do it and make it fun for both themselves and the Top.

You say, when discussing how you got into spanking on your blog, that it’s purely the discipline you crave, as opposed to the actual spanking. Do you not have to follow rules and behave at work? Whats the difference between what you need and the regular everyday school discipline (don’t run in corridors, etc)?

For me it all just goes back to the past. You would never know it by observing me at this point in my life, but as I grew up I was a terror to my parents and brother. I was the boss of the family, the “in charge” one. I ruled by intimidation and my parents didn’t know what to do about it so there was no discipline given. Somehow though, I turned out ok, but I have no idea how. I guess I realized that I needed to get it together once I became an adult so everything just snapped into place. But yet I still craved the discipline that I should have gotten all those years ago. It was missing and needed to be experienced. Receiving discipline nowadays is a healing and therapeutic experience for me. It sort of takes me back to my little girl self. So this being said I usually don’t “feel” like an adult when I’m being spanked. I don’t know if it is necessarily age play or not, but all I know is that it’s good for me. I don’t think I really answered the question, but it was good anyhow I guess. 😉

Do you need the spanking aspect of it or would a stern scolding and cornertime be enough? Do you get anything from the actual spanking?

For me, spanking is not about a physical sensation, but rather an inner feeling and mindset. There is just something about an authority figure taking the time and exerting themselves to punish me. Sending me to my room requires no effort on their part, but to physically “take me in hand” and spank me requires quite a bit of physical energy and exertion from them. It shows they really care for me to take the time to punish me like that. As for getting something out of the actual spanking, if scolding was to be totally removed from the picture, then no I wouldn’t get anything out of it at all – it would feel like someone was simply beating on me. The two have to be used in conjunction in order to evoke the feelings and mental place that I look to get to.

I do not believe that I need the actual spanking every single time. Quite honestly, if I’m being punished for a real-life issue, being grounded or restricted from privileges seems to be more effective at correcting me. Corner time and scolding alone doesn’t do much to correct a real misbehavior, but it is very good for getting into my headspace and causing me to feel very submissive and disciplined.

You say spanking isn’t sexual for you. Do you fantasize about it in a sexual way? Does it feel sexy afterwards or is it a turn-off? Do you think that maybe with the right person it might become sexual?

I don’t ever get aroused by spanking and I do not fantasize about it in a sexual way. My spanking interest is purely disciplinary and to me discipline and sexuality are on totally opposite ends of the spectrum and I don’t associate pleasure with pain.

I have never tried bringing spanking into my sex life so I don’t know whether or not it would work for me. If I was in a committed relationship, I would be open to experimenting with sensual spanking and sexuality. But for me there could be no scolding or pain involved with this.

What would be a perfect spanking for you?

There are so many different factors that can go into a good discipline spanking and I can’t possibly hit on them all, but here are a few that come to mind right now:

The perfect spanking has to include real, stern, scolding. The spanker needs to be someone who I know and trust and who knows and cares for me and understands what I need and want. I like being asked alot of questions about my behavior and being required to answer them quickly and respectfully. Being made to keep still and no kicking or excessive squirming, taking my punishment like a good girl. Getting “the look”. Being unexpectedly swatted while I’m standing in the corner, say for not answering a question quickly enough. Required to address someone as sir or ma’am. I like the spanking to occur in layers (i.e. over jeans, panties, and then bare bottom). After care is a big thing for me. I like to be held and cuddled afterwards and reassured that I’m still loved.

Alicia shows her dominant side as she spanks a naughty lady

How long have you been a practicing spanko for? And how long have you been switching?

I’ve been a practicing spanko since January 2009, and had my very first switching experience in August of that same year. The very first time that I spanked someone, it was a complete disaster! I was SO awkward, didn’t know what to say verbally as far as scolding, and only hit the spanking target zone like 20% of the swats I delivered. But word got out at the party and others asked me to spank them and even when I told them that I was terrible they still wanted me to try! As the evening wore on I became more and more comfortable with it and started enjoying it. January of 2010 marked my transition to Topping publicly and bottoming in my personal life only.

With my transition in January, I began getting requests from individuals who desired me to Top in private sessions. At first I wasn’t sure I was comfortable with being a “Professional Top” but in talking with some trusted friends and doing some self-searching, I decided that I would do it. The majority of people who I see are those who are extremely private with their spanking desires and who for various reasons can’t or won’t venture out to a public spanking event. They value the discretion that a private session offers them and if not for that they would never get to experience a spanking.

Is there anything you’ve learnt while topping that you’ve gone on to do whilst being on the bottom? Or vice versa?

There are more things that I’ve learned as a bottom that I use when I Top people. When I am bottoming, I’ve had a Top do or say something to me that really worked well with my headspace so I try to incorporate those things into my sessions.

Are you a strict top?

Yes, I have been told that I am and it is how I desire to be. People are not going to find much (if any) leniency with me because rules are there for a reason and if they are broken there will be consequences doled out. A good number of people that I encounter have a craving for consistency when it comes to discipline and they need to feel safe in knowing that the boundaries are always upheld. In addition to the strictness I also have a caring and affectionate side to me and I feel that both are needed when delivering discipline.

Has spanking made you a different person in your vanilla life? How?

Yes. One of the biggest changes that I’ve noticed is the betterment of my communication skills. Communication is so essential to ensure the safety and enjoyment of both parties. I’ve learned to ask for what I want which is something very simple but so often lacking in the vanilla world. People often assume that others know what they want and are mind readers.

It has also filled the void that I have felt for a long time, and that is to experience parental discipline in a caring but firm manner. It seems I’m more at peace with myself now.

Do you like to be scolded or told off in your vanilla life?

No. I find that there seems to be a totally different tone used in the vanilla world and the scolding is not done from a caring perspective usually. Their motives are generally not with your best interest at heart, but rather what will benefit them and it is often done in a way that puts you down rather than correct you so you can be a better person. I don’t care for it at all.

How did you choose the name Alicia Panettiere?

Panettiere is just a last name that I thought was pretty. Kinda stole it from Hayden Panettiere who is a mainstream actress. I didn’t think I would actually ever use it that much. I chose it before I ever thought I’d be doing any videos or anything.

Were you nervous about getting spanked for the first time in a movie? How did the first time go?

I was, actually. Primarily I think because I found out there would be no rehearsing it first so I was afraid my piece in the video would turn out to be bad. I was lucky to have a co-bottom, Lily Anna, who was very helpful in answering the tons of questions that I had and giving me advice. It was a pleasure working with her.

“Aunt Bella” is the name of the first video I did and it was for Clare Fonda’s site, After the first dialogue scene I was feeling more comfortable and of course the spanking scenes are just second nature to me. I do wish that I had been more vocal with ad libs in the non-spanking scenes because I was pretty quiet and Lily Anna did most of the talking. 🙂

Alicia relaxes after being spanked

Whats the future for Alicia Panettiere?

I recently opened my own website where I sell video clips and DVDs of the spanking films I have produced. I hope to buy some professional lighting and another camera or two so that the films are of even better quality. I have plans to shoot for more spanking production companies in the future as well.

I will continue meeting with individuals to give them private discipline sessions, and plan to expand my wardrobe and implement collection so that I am able to cater to each client’s unique fantasies.

On the vanilla side of things, I plan to start a web design business and pursue mainstream acting in films, commercials, and TV. Eventually my varied interests may take me away from Kansas, but no move is planned at the present. I’ll just continue to travel to and fro for now.

For more from Alicia please check out her websites…


Pandora Blake

Pandora Blake

Pandora Blake is a pretty, brunette spanking model from the UK. She has appeared on many spanking sites including British spanking websites Northern Spankings and Bars and Stripes. Not only does she let us see her getting spanked in her scenes, but Pandora also writes about her thoughts and experiences in her excellent blog Spanked, Not Silenced and also her personal website Pandora’s Bot.

We caught up with Pandora in April 2010.

When was your first spanking? How did you get into it? What turned you on to it?

I’m going to have to answer these separately, I think. I don’t know what turned me on to spanking, but I know that fantasising about kinky stuff was one of my very first memories, and I was very aware of my secret desires all through my childhood. I was first turned on to spanking at a very young age. By the time I started school my guilty interest in it was already fully formed.

My first consensual spanking experience was actually as a top. When I was 13 my best friend was 15, and she and I used to fool around. We never dated, but there were lots of clandestine caresses after lights out. She preferred to play roleplay games – I guess she felt safer being in character than accepting that she might be bisexual or gay – and one night, one of our roleplays led to spanking. I initiated it and I put her over my knee. She let me smack her a few times, but she was very nervous in case her parents (who were asleep in the same house, would you believe!) overheard, so I stopped and let her up. I found it very hot, but at the same time I knew that what I wanted most was to be spanked myself.

I got my chance three years later. I was friends with a boy who liked me, but at that age I was pretty sure I was gay, so I’d told him nothing would happen. We talked a lot, and realised we shared a lot of interests – including spanking, bondage and other kinky stuff. We browsed anime and BDSM porn online and eventually he asked if I’d like to play sometime. I thought it over, and a few days later came back and said sure. I was so desperate to experiment, this seemed like the chance of a lifetime. He was my friend, and I trusted him. But I made very sure he understood it would be just as friends, because I didn’t have romantic feelings for him.

It turned out to be the most incredibly intense scene. We played a silence game I’d fantasised about. He whipped me with a riding crop and if I made a sound, I got two more strokes. The whipping eventually ended somewhere over a hundred when both of us had lost count. I was so aroused I could barely speak. We played again a couple of weeks later, and after that I accepted that I must be bisexual after all, and we got together. We had great fun for a couple of years, but split up amicably when I went to university.

I’ve just been reading your blog. You’re very frank and descriptive about your sexuality and lovemaking, and it’s very well-written indeed. The thing that leaps out at me from reading “About Me” is that you have 2 Doms. What’s it like having two Doms?

Thankyou! It’s lovely of you to say so.

Having two Doms – you know, I’m really not sure I can generalise. I imagine it’s totally different depending on who your partners are. It means I get to share my life with two different people who share different aspects of my interests and stimulate me in different ways. The two D/s dynamics are very different. They’re both very good for me, but I get different things from each of them.

It also means that if one of them is stressed or tired, I can lean on the other one for strength and patience to feed back to the person who needs it. And it means if one of them isn’t in the mood to spank me, I can always ask the other! The arrangement is founded on mutual trust, respect and lots of communication. We have an IRC channel just for the three of us, and we hang out and chat in there most days.

What do you mean by “feminist ethos” in your spanking films?

This is such a huge question I think I’m going to have to write a book on it someday! I’m trying to answer this question through my blog at the moment. Firstly, I think it’s about treating all your models, but especially male and female spankees, with dignity and respect. That means treating them like royalty during the shoot, and not calling them a “dirty whore” in the marketing for the films. It’s also about presenting kink and sexuality in a positive, affirming way – so no women being spanked for being “slutty”, or anyone being made to feel ashamed for their sexuality.

I’m trying to overturn some of what I see as sexist standards in the industry. Feminist spanking porn should focus on the female gaze – that’s what women are looking for in erotic material. It means sexy male tops and spankees, as well as sexy female ones. I want hunky male tops with voices that will take my breath away, and vulnerable boys who have beautiful spankable bottoms. For me, it also means writing scenarios with interesting, plausible stories, and characters who have developed personalities and aren’t just a bit of flesh. And most importantly, it means everyone involved in making it should have fun, should never be made to feel pressured or uncomfortable.

Some of the porn I want to make is very edgy and intense, so if I’m filming a very nasty non-consensual scenario, it can be difficult to communicate this ethos through the stories themselves. This is why blogging is so important, so that the models – this is especially important for submissive models – have a voice which transcends that of their mistreated character in the film. It makes the industry more transparent and helps everyone stay safer. And it means that even if you’ve just watched a nail-bitingly difficult scene, you can read the spankee’s version of events, and hear why they did it and what they got out of it. For me that’s a huge part of my enjoyment, especially with more violent scenes.

How did you become a spanking model? What was the first time like?

This is kind of a long story and I’ve actually already told it on my blog – do you mind if I link to that? The short version is that I started out doing nude modelling while I was a student. I already had a bit of experience of kink from playing with lovers, and after I’d done a bit of bondage modelling I was invited to do a simulated stills spanking shoot. I loved it, insisted on taking 6 real strokes of the cane, and have never looked back. 🙂

Pandora plays a secretary who gets herself in trouble in her employer's office

Do you have a high tolerance of pain? Do you bruise easily? What are your limits?

I’ve been told I have a pretty high tolerance. I tend not to enjoy a spanking unless I feel pushed, but my tolerance definitely changes from day to day. Some days the lightest of spankings will be a huge challenge – other days it feels like I can take it indefinitely. These days I don’t bruise easily, like most people who play regularly.

My limits would take a whole other essay to describe! One thing I never do with anyone is cunt punishment. In some ways I’m a bit of a pain slut, but my cunt is the one part of my body no-one is allowed to hurt.

How do you like to be spanked? What would be the perfect spanking?

It varies depending on the person and the day. I enjoy different things from different spankers. Right now, I would quite like a slow-paced, deep, erotic spanking. Very hard, very slow, with lots of caresses and murmured encouragement. Perhaps starting with hand and then moving on to my heavy leather paddle. I like earning the respect of my Dom by being brave and obedient, and then being taken to the next level and tested all over again.

Has your taste in spanking changed since you first got into it?

It’s definitely broadened since I started spanking modelling. I find most of the scenes I see in my work hot in one way or another, and I feel like my kink has expanded and stretched. It’s like the more you exercise that part of your brain, the more active it is. As I’ve grown up I’ve got better at identifying and enforcing my personal boundaries and not taking any shit from people, so every scene I play these days, I enjoy to the full. I feel like I’m getting kinkier as I get older, but thinking back to my childhood I was always pretty kinky!

Do you ever switch?

Not really. I switch sometimes on shoots, in certain contexts – playing the bullying prefect or angry older sister. I can’t manage to play a proper authority figure, although I might learn as I get older. I enjoy admiring the bodies of pretty men and women, and I definitely enjoy the physical act of spanking when I get the chance to do it. Psychologically, though, unless I’m acting I feel utterly silly and out of place whenever I try, so it doesn’t happen much.

Pandora shows off her beautiful big bottom

I sometimes think that less corporal punishment happens than it used to, maybe in the future no-one will be into spanking. What do you think?

I actually think the opposite! My experience is that kink is becoming more common as it is better accepted and understood, not less. Whenever I speak to spankos who were punished at school there’s usually a conflict in them, a tension between the trauma of going through this humiliating, violent experience which they definitely didn’t consent to, and the confusing desire of being confronted with something they’d fantasised about. Consensual, kinky play is as different from non-consensual CP as good sex is from rape; I don’t think one is predicated on the other.

I predict that CP will remain in our collective imaginations for a very long time, and we will have a wealth of historical contexts to fantasise about long after our species has evolved beyond the point of thinking it’s okay to beat children. I hope future generations will be free to enjoy consensual kink without being haunted by the shadow of real abuse.

Whats in the future for Pandora?

Well, I’m hoping to launch my own tiny, pay-per-download spanking site this summer, although progress is being delayed at the moment by various things. That’s just going to be a very simple page, and I’ll continue working behind the scenes on the full members site, which will probably launch sometime next year.

After that – well, who knows? I’d like to continue modelling for a few more years at least, as I’ve got loads of scenarios I want to act out before I stop. I expect that eventually I’ll want to focus more on writing, production and editing, but at the moment that feels a long way off. I also hope to write a book or two at some point – there’s that one about feminism and spanking porn which needs writing, for a start! – but I haven’t given the plan much serious thought.

I hope my D/s relationships will stay strong and get deeper. I’ve thrived on living alone for the past few years, but there’s talk of my moving in with one of my boys sometime soon (I’m not telling which yet!). I wouldn’t be surprised if that means spanking became a much bigger part of my day to day life. The idea of having household rules and duties, and of being spanked every day regardless, is so thrilling and comforting, somehow. I’m looking forward to it.

For more of Pandora’s discussion on spanking and all things kinky, aswell as some previews of the scenes she’s appeared in, check out Pandora Blake’s Blog.


Sinn Sage

Sinn Sage and Naomi Cruise on Exclusive Education 3
Sinn Sage stands up in class in Clare Fonda’s “Exclusive Education 3” movie

Sinn Sage is a cute and naughty babe who runs her own girl-on-girl spanking website. She has a perfect bottom that gets spanked hard by the many strict females in her life, one being Chelsea Pfeiffer, and she loves to get her own back on her sexy girlfriends.

I’ve just been checking out your website Spank Sinn, can you describe your site to the readers?

Sure, my website is basically Girl/Girl Erotic Spanking, that’s the way i usually refer to it when people ask me. So instead of typical, punishment-oriented spankings based on pain, my site is based on spanking pain for mutual pleasure, more of a reward than a punishment.

Your scenes look very sexy and a lot of fun to make, it definitely looks like it’s just you and your hot girlfriends having fun. Whats it like to be in one of your scenes?

You’ve described it well, in the sense that i do try to get other girls who are into spankings, or at least have an interest in being spanked or learning about how to spank, to come on the site and basically play and have sexy fun with me. Being in a scene on my site is fairly simple, i just like to have lots of kissing, groping, fondling, and caressing along with a LOT of spankings, running from mild to heavy.

What’s your favorite scene on your site?

i should just go with the first one that pops into my head always when i think about the best scene on my site, and that is the one with Ariel X. She is such a great woman with a STUNNING body and sweet ass, and she and i did a simultaneous spanking thing with sexy lighting, and it was so out of this world. She was truly turned on by it and i could feel her energy from it, and that’s what really made that scene stand out.

Sinn gets spanked by Lana in the foreground, while Kay gets spanked by Clare at the same time
Sinn gets spanked by Lana Wilson while Kay Richards is spanked by Clare

How did you start in spanking?

Well, it’s definitely one of those kinks i’ve always somewhat fantasized about, since i was very young actually. it always sounded naughty to me and so it always seemed like something i would of course be in to. But it really started for me once i got into doing adult work, it just naturally seemed like something i would do, because pretty much as long as it’s not anal penetration or working with men then i’ll do it. Turned out i really loved it so it worked out well.

What do you like about getting spanked?

There are so many things. i guess for one i’d say the endorphins. When you warm up slowly to some really hard spankings with a hand or a strap, the endorphins are rushing through you so fast it’s just a great natural high. When you hit that point where you’re asking for it harder, that’s what i love. The perfect amount, for me, as in don’t make me cry, but hit me really hard and it’s pretty much ecstasy. i can go in tired and not even wanting to shoot, and halfway through i’m like “yee-haw!” i also like the emotional release that can come from a really hard spanking. In my most extreme spanking shoot ever, i started crying towards the end, and afterward i just cried for about an hour, and realized that i was letting a lot of emotions get pent up from my personal life at that time, and being spanked so hard for so long just allowed me to let it all out, and i really felt much better after that.

You’re a switch. Are you more submissive or dominant?

Of course IT DEPENDS!!! With most girls, i really feel a strong dominant streak, and i love spanking them, and if they spank me and suck at it, i just want to take them down and show them how it’s done! but for example with Chelsea i like to be submissive. Usually though, even when i’m doing regular girl/girl sex scenes, i end up taking control and i like it that way.

Sinn Sage's spanked face
Sinn Sage’s pretty face as she gets spanked OTK

What makes a perfect spanking for you?

i think that’s hard to describe, because everyone understands pain in a different way. For me, the perfect spanking is hand, over the knee, not too-too hard, but definitely not too soft. Firm, but make my butt jiggle a little bit. i like to be worked up to a really hard spanking. But LOTS of butt rubbing in between! You must soothe the butt as well as spank it!

Your website is girl-only. Why is that?

i’ve always just done girl/girl work since i first entered the business about 6 years ago. Although you might find a few scenes of me from a few years ago getting spanked by men, at some point i decided that it made more sense for me to restrict all of my work to women (except for some of the wrestling work i’ve done). i’m just genuinely attracted to females and working with men doesn’t really interest me at all, and i feel that anything you do in adult you should feel passionately about in your personal life. i don’t like fakes!

Sinn Sage's beautiful spanked bottom
Sinn Sage’s beautiful spanked bottom from a recent spanking on her website: Spank Sinn

What does the future hold for Sinn Sage?

That is a loaded question, which is difficult for me to answer right now. Coming off of a serious accident that landed me in the hospital for 3 weeks, i feel i’m forced to re-evaluate everything in my life, and it’s very difficult. But continuing with work has helped me a lot, to feel like i do still have some stability. i’m glad my website is going well, and i really hope that people find it sexy and intriguing, and i hope i can have growing success with that. So hopefully, the future holds a lot more delicious spankings with super hot chicks!

Catch up with all of Sinn’s Spankings at her websites…


Samantha Grace

Samantha Grace

Samantha Grace is a sexy brunette glamour and fetish model. .. I think she says it best in Samantha Grace’s Grand Adventures

I couldn’t cut it as an evil super villain so, I became the second most evil thing I could think of… a professional model so I could take over the world. When I am not planning global domination and total anarchy, I have grand adventures and I’ve decided to share them.

As well as glamour and spanking Samantha Grace gets up to many different forms of bondage and fetish in the movies in her Clips4Sale Store.

Here’s what we asked Samantha…

What was your first spanking scene and how did it go?

I was a very young 19 year old girl. I experienced it after meeting a few BDSM friends in the city I was living in at the time. My first spanking scene was actually with a female top and yes it was actually for a spanking site as well. I am not even sure if the site is even around anymore. But it was back in the early 2000’s. It went well, since then I can handle a tough spanking.

Who have you worked with in spanking? Any stories you can share?

Oh, goodness tons of people at this point Julie Simone, Clare Fonda, Chelsea Pfeiffer, Dallas, Punished Brats, Kelly Payne and Shadow Lane are some of the big names. I am sure there are a few I am missing. I will say one of my favorite spanking scenes was with Julie Simone when we shot with Gwen Media a number of years ago. Right before our scene I had a scene were I was dreaming about being a kitty cat as a pet. Julie let me pick my paddle and she happened to have a kitty cat paddle. I picked that one and the sting was great.

What would make your perfect spanking scene?

I experienced my perfect spanking scene at Fetishcon in August. It was the most romantic experience of my life to date and it was when my master Rifferus collared me at Fetishcon. He bought me my first collar which, really showed me his commitment to me. I was so surprised! The key to my heart is actually commitment, I am bit of an old fashion romantic. He also bought be a slapper that would be used in my training as a pet. I am his little kitty baby after all. Both of us are huge spank-o’s by the way, if you haven’t figured by now.

Anywho, after collaring me Rifferus broke in the new slapper on by bottom, by giving me the most passionate, loving, and orgasmic spanking of my life time. It was such a great moment in my life. He is such a tender and loving top. I will admit being I am a softy, I love the tender romantic moments. I am just a very passionate woman.

Samantha Grace among the cast of Exclusive Education 4

How did you become a pro domme?

I am not sure how to answer this? I started off as a bottom like most dommes. In my personal life I am a submissive and I guess it is natural to branch off into becoming a pro domme. I pretty much started because people asked me if I would top them and agreed to. I will admit, I love topping and my special knowledge is in, humiliation/ financial domination, impact play, and rope bondage. I never have enough slaves who want impact play! Which is my favourite.

You call yourself a “mean submissive” or switch, which do you prefer subbing or domming? And why?

I am first an foremost always a submissive. But I am selective who I bottom to these days. I pretty much only bottom to Rifferus in my personal life. But on camera I bottom to some producers. Being a collared bottom is sacred to me. My relationship with Rifferus very sacred. I love being a bottom to Rifferus. It’s special to me because not everyone gets to top me. As a bottom I am offering my whole self to Rifferus. As a top he is offering his full self to give me pleasure. It’s a very spiritaul and deep exchange.

As for being a top, I will top just about anyone…. girls or boys. Anyone, who wants someone who can take charge. I am a natural born leader, so I guess it is natural I would enjoy being a top. I am a take charge kind of a woman. But I also have a lot of respect for bottoms. A bottom is offering themselves to me. A person who wants to please and serve me. I tend to be kind of a motherly top. I treat my subs, as my little children. I am strict but loving.. Like any good top should be. A bottom is not to be abused, but cherished and loved.

Do you get to combine your love of glamour and corsets with spanking? What is it like getting spanked in a corset?

I have from time to time. I find myself not wearing corsets much because it is restrictive to the play sometimes. I tend to like a lot physical contact and I tend to wear as little as possible when being spanked. Unless it is for a shoot or I am out on the town.

Samantha Grace, right, and Ariel X

What is it about being spanked that you like/dislike?

I love being spanked. One of my favourite things in my person life is that Rifferus carries that slapper around whenever we are together and swats me, when I am being a brat. I think spanking brings people together. More people need to explore spanking. I will admit I am more of the loving tender spankees. I am not intro hardcore spanking. I like a nice romantic and sexy spanking, not one that that leaves me black and blue for days. I mean I have experienced that before, I’ve been spanked by Dallas after all. It’s not that I hate a rough spanking, I just am a romantic.

Implements.. what do you like and dislike?

I am not a fan of wood. But I love leather! Leather straps and slappers are the best! Hair bushes are good too. But nothing beats and old fashion OTK hand spanking. I love feeling my top’s hand on my bum.

Do you have a favorite spanking fantasy you can share?

Being a the romantic I am, my fantasy includes being spanked in my wedding dress on my wedding night. I just think there is nothing sexier then a spanked newly married blushing bride. This is a shocking fantasy even for myself because I was never a girl who wanted to marry anyone until fairly recently. But a paddled bride in her dress, the imagery is sexy. Then the idea of the husband paddling her for over cooking dinner or getting spanked for taking too long to get ready when they need to be on the road. It is just domestic sexy bliss to me. Most of my fantasies are of a domestic theme, so I guess it is natural that I think in the terms of spanking in a marriage. I think if more married couples spanked, there would be fewer divorces.

What does the future hold for Samantha Grace?

It holds the launch of!

And a number of other sites, I am co-creating a spanking site with Rifferus in the near future. So, lot’s of sexy spanko times coming up. There will be some spanking on my personal site as well.

See more of Samantha Grace’s adventures at..



Keagen gets punished by Headmaster Tom at Girls Boarding School

You may have seen Keagen online at Real Spankings, Girl’s Boarding School and Dallas Spanks Hard. So, already from her portfolio of spanking work we can tell that this young lady can take a very hard punishment. She also describes her thoughts about her spanking life beautifully in discussions and stories on her blog.

When did you get into spanking? How did it happen?

I have been into spanking for as long as I could remember, but I discovered the adult spanking world my senior year of high school. I wrote a paper on corporal punishment, and that opened the doors to the world I now thrive in. . . .

I’ve just been reading your “Life Isn’t Fair” story and “What Was I Thinking?” post on Keagen’s Spanking Memoir. I liked them a lot! Your writing style is very enjoyable. It sounds like you want/need to be controlled but you hate it when it is actually happening, it sounds like a huge adrenaline rush with the thoughts flying around in your head as you realize you’re in for a spanking. It literally sounds like a rollercoaster that is terrifying but the relief is so great. How do you feel after a spanking?

You have described it perfectly. . . . . it is a roller coaster of emotion and feelings. After a spanking, I feel spent. I feel relaxed, loved, cared for, and forgiven. The pain is often mind-blowing, and the sense of being out of control overwhelming, but it is a very safe feeling over all. My favorite part is when it’s over! That way, I have nothing left to dread, and I can relax in his arms, knowing my slate is clean. . . .

What kind of spankee are you?

I don’t exactly understand the question, but I’ll answer what I assume it to be. I am a spriteful spankee. I am not completely submissive, across the board, although there is one man, and one man only, that I give my submission to. He has my complete submission. Overall, though, I am not submissive. . . . . . I am vocal, but I’m not a fighter, usually. As long as my sense of control is firmly in place, I don’t fight. I never truly mean to fight the spanker. . . . simply the out-of-control feeling.

What would be a perfect spanking? What makes it perfect?

A perfect spanking would be one that very much so reminds me who is in control, and who I belong to, yet one that is not mind-blowingly painful, as most of his spankings are. A perfect spanking would be one in which I was able to fully give control without it needing to be wrenched from my grasp, and without a battle. The simple sense of submission, and safety, without extreme pain, would be what made it perfect. . . . .

Keagen gets an OTK spanking with the hairbrush

What is the most dreaded implement in your implement bag?

Oh, the rubber strap, for sure. This thing is beyond demonic. . . . . .It’s pain that is so painful, it doesn’t fully register because the brain goes into a “panic” mode. The focus is no longer on the spanking, or the implement, or the lecture. . . . only on escape. . . . . It’s thick, heavy, and one that can have me so apprehensive I’m nauseous and sick. The instant I see it, my brain clicks off, and goes into a different mode in order to deal.

Do you enjoy restraints? Do you like BDSM?

NO. Restraints and I are NOT friends, in any way.

Whats your favorite spanking fantasy?

I don’t enjoy role-play, nor fantasy, really. My spanker and I once verbally talked through a scene that had an absolutely magical feeling to it. . . . . a spanking down at the ocean during a sun-set. That’s something I would love to experience in RL.

What does the future hold for Keagen?

School, school, and more school. . . .oh, and a few spankings. . . . . Plenty of time with friends and family . . . . . . . .further exploration and growth on the path of submission. . . . . .

Read more about Keagen’s spankings at Keagen’s Spanking Memoir